rodhead Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 (edited) I'm in a bit of a frustrating situation thats driving me crazy so this post might be long, sorry about this but I need advice. I've known this girl for about 8 months, I met her through a mutual freind so theres usually 5 or 6 of us hanging out most nights. I've wanted to date her for most of the time that I've known her and I think she's always been into me. Anyways,last saturday (06/04) a bunch of us were drinking at her apartment and four of us decieded to stay over, she told me to stay in her bed with her and everyone else stayed in her living room, I slept in her bed but didn't have sex because she was way more drunk then I was, and I care about her. We haven't talked about that at all, but have hung out a couple times since then. Now I'm worried she might think I'm not interested in her at all, I don't want to be stuck being "just freinds" with her but I also don't want to make things awkward since we have quite a few mutual freinds. I should add that we have flirted with each other alot sober, so this wasn't just a onetime drunk incident. Again, sorry for the length of this but advice would be awesome. Edited June 13, 2011 by rodhead
Mrlonelyone Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 OK A woman ask you to stay in bed with her while drunk. It means on some level she's into you. Now if she ask when she's not drunk that would mean allot more. You need to just try to ask her out on one on one date. Nothing fancy or expensive. Just ask to "hang out" one one one...but ask to "hang out" and ....see a movie ... do some date activity. As for her thinking you are not into her because you did not try to take advantage of her while drunk. Firstly a woman of quality will consider you a good (not "nice") man for not doing that. Secondly in allot of places doing it with a very drunk woman can get you charged with "date rape". (I know it's absurd because the woman is never accused of raping the drunk guy.) So you did the right thing.
Author rodhead Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 Thanks man, we're supposed to go swimming and hang out next weekend, I thinks I'm going to take her out for lunch or dinner.
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