Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Hey, everyone remembers my post on being mean to the cute girl in Target? Sure you do. Okay, well, I'm always in Target and went in there yesterday for some stuff again. I spotted the same cute girl I was mean to that time and probably even freaked her out a little bit, who knows. Anyhow, I was trying to find a short line because most of them were full. The cute girl was working the register, so I decided to go to her, with 2 people ahead of me. As she rang up the customers in front, she kept glancing at me every turn. I sensed she was nervous. When it was my turn, I simply said hello and she smiled. Then I asked her for a big bag and she complied, but not before turning around and pulling up her tight khakis into cute little wedgie . Then, she directed me during payment, waved at a friend passing by and laughed happily, then after receiving the money, I got my receipt and walked away, but not before glancing back at her and seeing how at ease and elated she looked all of a sudden . I don't know. I guess I felt bad when I saw her again and how nervous she looked when I loitered by her register. I thought I did the right thing by acting decent to her and letting go of this hangup that's been on my shoulder as of late. Now, to be honest, I am attracted to her. She's small, no more than 5 feet, petite, curvy, and I can tell she's a nice girl so I might've picked on the wrong one? How do you people think I should proceed with this? I do wanna get to know her a little bit, but not in the way of trying to distract her or becoming a pest. Keep in mind I did try to ask out a Target girl a while ago and it didn't go well. I don't wanna take the same approach. I kind of want to practice the so-called charm my friend does, but I wanna zero it in on just her for now. But of course, I'd still keep it real and honest. No phony pickup crap. What do you guys think?
dangerstranger Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I didn't see your other thread about being mean to her. A girl with a healthy self esteem wouldn't consider giving a guy that was mean to her any sort of "chance" for anything.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 I didn't see your other thread about being mean to her. A girl with a healthy self esteem wouldn't consider giving a guy that was mean to her any sort of "chance" for anything. Have you ever heard of second chances? Besides, I wasn't all that bad. I was just using her as a guinea pig at that time .
dangerstranger Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Have you ever heard of second chances? Besides, I wasn't all that bad. I was just using her as a guinea pig at that time . Well what did you do?
Sabali Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Have you ever heard of second chances? Besides, I wasn't all that bad. I was just using her as a guinea pig at that time . Definitely go for it. Tell her to give you her number so that you can call her. Don't waste more time by trying to build up things through charm in this situation. She will more likely give you her number now.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 Definitely go for it. Tell her to give you her number so that you can call her. Don't waste more time by trying to build up things through charm in this situation. She will more likely give you her number now. How do you know this? You seem pretty confident. Was it from what I mentioned above about our transaction earlier that helped you draw this conclusion? Remember, I hardly know her and you think it's a good idea to go for the number before even engaging a little bit conversation? I mean, I'm all for it especially since I'm trying to find my better self again, but I also don't wanna look obvious and mess it up. Shouldn't I attempt a few more stops at her register first and then make a move? And why no attempt to charm a little bit? My friend does it and it works. Should I at least try from my own point of view.
dangerstranger Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 How do you know this? You seem pretty confident. Was it from what I mentioned above about our transaction earlier that helped you draw this conclusion? Remember, I hardly know her and you think it's a good idea to go for the number before even engaging a little bit conversation? I mean, I'm all for it especially since I'm trying to find my better self again, but I also don't wanna look obvious and mess it up. Shouldn't I attempt a few more stops at her register first and then make a move? And why no attempt to charm a little bit? My friend does it and it works. Should I at least try from my own point of view. So let me get this straight, you treated her badly on your first meeting, view her as an experiment, and now you want to ask her out? What is wrong with you. If she says yes, she has just as much of a problem as you do. No woman with an ounce of self respect would ignore the glaring red flag you waved in her face.
johan Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 You sound a bit cocky. I say go for it. Boneheads need love, too.
Sabali Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 How do you know this? You seem pretty confident. Was it from what I mentioned above about our transaction earlier that helped you draw this conclusion? Remember, I hardly know her and you think it's a good idea to go for the number before even engaging a little bit conversation? I mean, I'm all for it especially since I'm trying to find my better self again, but I also don't wanna look obvious and mess it up. Shouldn't I attempt a few more stops at her register first and then make a move? And why no attempt to charm a little bit? My friend does it and it works. Should I at least try from my own point of view. Are you able to PM me? If so do it and I will explain this.
snug.bunny Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 As a customer, you were mean to one of the employees.... You asked out another one of the employees, and that didn't turn out well. Now you've gone back, and are considering going back a few more times. Stop creating drama at the Target superstore, you may end up banned from the store altogether.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 So let me get this straight, you treated her badly on your first meeting, view her as an experiment, and now you want to ask her out? What is wrong with you. If she says yes, she has just as much of a problem as you do. No woman with an ounce of self respect would ignore the glaring red flag you waved in her face. Would you stop talking on what you don't really know for just a second? Thank you. When I said mean to her before, I was just a wiseass, not that big a deal. I see guys do this all the time, especially on TV shows and read about real-life incidents in papers, and more times than not, if the guy comes correct to the girl and show's a decent side to him, and if there's some sort of attraction there, the girl usually gives it a go. You claim you wouldn't at all, correct? Well, you make up only about 10% of the female population that wouldn't. I do know that women like men to be a little mean at least once in a while because routine niceness bores them. I've been down the 100% nice guy road and got no results. I've been down the mysterious semi-nice road and got a little bit of results, but not as much as I hoped, but it was definitely better than zilch. So, I'm starting to learn this game better but need more of a push.
dangerstranger Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Would you stop talking on what you don't really know for just a second? Thank you. When I said mean to her before, I was just a wiseass, not that big a deal. I see guys do this all the time, especially on TV shows and read about real-life incidents in papers, and more times than not, if the guy comes correct to the girl and show's a decent side to him, and if there's some sort of attraction there, the girl usually gives it a go. You claim you wouldn't at all, correct? Well, you make up only about 10% of the female population that wouldn't. I do know that women like men to be a little mean at least once in a while because routine niceness bores them. I've been down the 100% nice guy road and got no results. I've been down the mysterious semi-nice road and got a little bit of results, but not as much as I hoped, but it was definitely better than zilch. So, I'm starting to learn this game better but need more of a push. I've only used your own words against you, so whatever. I asked you what happened the first time and you didn't say- your post only said you were "mean" to her on the first meeting. Where do you get your statistics from? lol. I'm pretty confident, and I respect myself. If a guy is a dick to me the first time we meet, he's not getting a second chance.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 I've only used your own words against you, so whatever. I asked you what happened the first time and you didn't say- your post only said you were "mean" to her on the first meeting. Where do you get your statistics from? lol. I'm pretty confident, and I respect myself. If a guy is a dick to me the first time we meet, he's not getting a second chance. If you wanna review what the other thread was about on the Target girl, just look me up and all my posts. There you will easily find it. Like I said earlier, I'm trying to turn over a new leaf and I'm doing pretty good thus far. This is due to better understanding of the opposite sex, I believe, so I will keep at it . As far as making a move on this girl. I'm not sure yet. I might have to feel her out a little more.
dangerstranger Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 If you wanna review what the other thread was about on the Target girl, just look me up and all my posts. There you will easily find it. Like I said earlier, I'm trying to turn over a new leaf and I'm doing pretty good thus far. This is due to better understanding of the opposite sex, I believe, so I will keep at it . As far as making a move on this girl. I'm not sure yet. I might have to feel her out a little more. I'm going to do that- seriously:laugh:
Arikel Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Maybe you could start by just being nice and maybe apologizing for being mean in the first place? Try to negate or make right what you had done before, then see how things stand. It would be a bit of a 'WTF is wrong with this guy' moment if you asked her out just like that. I wouldnt go out with a guy who was mean then did a 180, I'd be highly wary.
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I really think the security guards at this Target are going to be on the lookout for you. You should never return. Can you get your shopping done at Wal-Mart instead? You'll find plenty of appropriate girls for you there, with wedgies: http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/?page_id=9798&paged=18
TuffCookieX Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I'm with dangerstranger, also agreeing with looking up your old thread. She asked you what you did exactly, you didn't answer, then you go b*tching and moaning about her lack of knowledge on what happened. Here's an idea. Go to Target and buy 10 boxes of condoms. Go in her line, tell her the reason you are buying these are so you can use them on HER, then show her your junk. Have your phone number written on your penis so she can analyze it at the same time as getting your info. Bound to win that way, she will be thrilled to see you later that night, no?
iris219 Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 The question should be, "Should the girl you were mean to give you a shot?" How would you answer this?
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 The question should be, "Should the girl you were mean to give you a shot?" How would you answer this? "Yes. With a tranquilizer gun."
Lucky_One Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I think you should return, pick up a package of feminine hygiene deodorant, write your number on the package with a Sharpie, and then go through her check-out line. While you are swiping your credit card (this proves that you are a good financial catch), smile at her and say "Sugar bumpkins, if you would only let go of the tight khakis and let your womanhood breathe in the fine, fresh, stultified air of a Target in springtime and wear some nice light sundresses, then I would love to take you out for dinner and then I would even think about performing oral sex on you IF you wash your fishiness away with this deodorant. Give me a call." Wink. Leave your marked package on her conveyor belt. And walk.
Mimolicious Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 That you did what??????????? I don't understand the wedgie part. Are you like 15? Those years were so cute... if this was all we had to worry about! Gosh, I want to be a kid again!
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 That you did what??????????? I don't understand the wedgie part. Are you like 15? Those years were so cute... if this was all we had to worry about! Gosh, I want to be a kid again! What's to understand? She turned around and pulled up on her pants and it looked like a wedgie. She did it for my benefit, obviously. I liked it. Besides, I met a girl in the supermarket today and then I saw her again at the corner store and exchanged hellos. I got her to laugh, then out of nowhere, she tells me how she loves cooking? I wonder what that's about?
Only Gal Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Maybe you could start by just being nice and maybe apologizing for being mean in the first place? Try to negate or make right what you had done before, then see how things stand. It would be a bit of a 'WTF is wrong with this guy' moment if you asked her out just like that. I wouldnt go out with a guy who was mean then did a 180, I'd be highly wary. i agree 100%! girls love it when men lower alil bit their ego just to apologize. want to get a girl for short term? be the bad boy. want to get a girl who adores n supports u no matter what? then be a real gentleman.
TuffCookieX Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Besides, I met a girl in the supermarket today and then I saw her again at the corner store and exchanged hellos. I got her to laugh, then out of nowhere, she tells me how she loves cooking? I wonder what that's about? If you're fat, she must think you also love cooking and food.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 i agree 100%! girls love it when men lower alil bit their ego just to apologize. want to get a girl for short term? be the bad boy. want to get a girl who adores n supports u no matter what? then be a real gentleman. I'm not looking for long-term. I'm not a bad boy by nature, but I can pull off the mystery act somewhat with a dose of humor, so I'm gonna try it with her when I feel up to it, as well as the supermarket girl when I see her again.
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