RareBreed Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 I'll start from square one. I started talking to this girl that went to highschool with me, years ago, nothing serious, just casual friends considering the fact that she was with her boyfriend of 3years at the time. We were never friends in school, only after we graduated (idk how that happened). Anyways in 2009 her and this guy apparently were done, me and her began talking on a more serious level right after... But I couldn't get to the relationship part with her because there was some sort of invisible wall. I finally found out she was still texting her ex attempting to reconcile. This went on for about a year (her leading me on).. I then found someone else New Years 2010 & we Started a relationship. I was extremely into my new girl, so into her that I deleted the highschool girl from my life. Facebook, my phone, everything. Anyways during the course of our relationship my old highschool friend began bombing my friends Facebook pages with comments about me and how I'm gone off with my new girl & etc. She attempted to friend request me about 6 times over the course of our year relationship but I denied them. About 2 months ago, me and my ex broke up. The old girl requested me, I accepted, and now we're talking on a casual friend level. Her and this guy are no longer together or talking and she Definately wants more than just a friendship with me. Should I Back track and see what's going on with her again... Or put a wall up on her & keep it pushing?
thatone Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 you wanna get laid? go for it. you don't care to? ignore her. either way don't expect much until she proves she is worthy of a level of trust she has yet to show you. remember that fact every day, the responsibility lies with her, not you.
Silivren Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I would be cautious... she did lead you on in the past... And she clearly has boundary issues... why was she trying to add you when you already had a serious girlfriend? ...kind of a little obsessive... Maybe she's one of those types that just wants what she can't have - you were desirable when you were taken.. now that you are single again what will she do?
Author RareBreed Posted June 15, 2011 Author Posted June 15, 2011 You're right. I'm just gonna keep doing me. Thanks for the responses.
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