Imajerk17 Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I like what you wrote but it seems she has gauged his aggressiveness and feels it might set him off and would just allow for more contact.. I do think she needs to say something.. to me it should be more to the point and less nice since he has a habit of pushing boundaries however it seems she is going to just ignore his contact and see if he will go away.. sooner or later you would think after no invite further existing that he would. I agree with you that her actions of not responding speak loud and clear too, but how many posters come on here wishing for "closure": 'Why won't s/he just answer me? Even if it is to tell me that s/he isn't interested and to go **** off'. I would be willing to bet that what he really wants at this point is the respect of a direct response, even if it is to 'go **** off'.
reboot Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 I agree with you that her actions of not responding speak loud and clear too, but how many posters come on here wishing for "closure": 'Why won't s/he just answer me? Even if it is to tell me that s/he isn't interested and to go **** off'. I would be willing to bet that what he really wants at this point is the respect of a direct response, even if it is to 'go **** off'. She doesn't owe him anything.
Ross MwcFan Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 She doesn't owe him anything. It's the right thing to do though.
youngskywalker Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 I had a girl once that wouldn't stop texting me. Ignoring her and saying no just didn't do it. Finally I replied to a text... "I'm not interested in you, please stop texting me" Sometimes you just have to do it. Never heard from her since.
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