Mimi99 Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 I met a guy a little while ago online and I had a thread about my situation. Anyway, Its so strange that this guy randomly texts and says " whats up?" or "what are you doing?" at the end of the day. Not really looking for a conversation but a couple of one liners. I would text back, because, I thought that he may want to be just friends. And I'm cool with that. But he'll never ask to hangout or have conversations with me. Do you think he's looking for an ego boost with a reply from me, or is he expecting me to take the lead and ask him out? I'm about to stop replying back completely. But it's just weird that someone would randomly text, with no purpose. Doesn' show interest. Don't know what it means. Any thoughts?
Arikel Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Probably bored or wanting a girl to ask him out. I know a guy who does the same thing to me... we went out once, I did NOT enjoy myself, and every couple of months he txts me "Hi dear, miss you. We should go out for drinks again". Always practically the same message, no name included. I just figure he mass SMS's when hes bored trying to get a hit Maybe its the same with that guy you know
Author Mimi99 Posted June 12, 2011 Author Posted June 12, 2011 Thanks Arikel. I'm just trying to figure out why some men act the way they do. First time anything like it has happened to me and I was really over thinking the situation. I've been in 2 very long relationships and never dated alot of guys, hence the questions on LS. Getting back on the dating scene and it is rough out there!!!
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