ScreamEclipse Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Okay, i really like this girl a lot but i don't know what i should do. we used to be really good friends when we were younger be we've grown apart cause we went to different schools I even have pictures of us two in pre k. Now we're in high school and i have this crazy crush on her but i have no idea what to do. should I tell her? I've seen her looking at me before but i don't really know if that means anything. We sit next to each other in science now as well, and im really nervous. You have no idea how much i care about this girl she means the world to me. I dunno if i should tell her cause im really nervous when im next to her but i cant stop thinking about her shes on my mind 24/7. One night when i was bored i wrote this up: "I can't lie anymore. I'm not over you. I just can't be because I've never met a girl like you before. And there's so many things I want to tell you. I wanna tell you you're beautiful inside and out. I wanna say you're nice and smart and funny. I wanna say you're the most amazing girl in the world. There's just something about you that's... just amazing. Whenever I'm around you I just feel happy. And I just wanna be with you. I was so sure that I wanted to be with you ever since we were in pre K together when we were great friends. It felt so right to me. I could never tell you how I feel though. Because I got too afraid of rejection to tell you. But I'm not afraid anymore. So I'm telling you all this now because if I don't do it now, I'll regret it forever. I know I don't know you that well any more, but I've never felt this way about any girl before. That's probably the reason I'm emptying my heart like this. Because I like you that much. And if I could be with you I'd treat you better than gold. And if I could do anything. anything! to be with you I would because you're worth it. And if anyone doesn't think you're worth it, they're crazy. If you'd let me be with you. I'd do anything to make you happy. Well I just told you everything I've been feeling and meaning to say for so long in this speech. But if you still don't wanna be with me... it's your choice. You have the right to turn me down if you want to. It'll probably hurt of course, but I'll get by. There's no girl I can think of that's more beautiful and kinder than you. So I just want to be with you. I know you're out of my league, but can you give me a chance?"
light_vader Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Look dude. With all respect. Your letter is really "cute" and all... and it reminds me of a romantic comedy (any!) but in reality I think, personally, that what you are expressing her there is "I'm a wussy, asking for your approval". You need to work on that. Second of all... don't say she is the world to you. I know, we've all felt that, but seriously, after ****ed up situations all I have to tell you is, if you let someone become your world, except for your own self, you're pretty much screwed in life. First is always you. Then the others. Now, what I think you should do is talk to her, you know, be casual, don't get too nervous, don't get arrogant either, but just let her know you are a decided man, that you have a high self-esteem. Your posture, the calmness in your talk, the right pauses, all hint that. Talk about how you remember her from before, how good times you may have had. And then if she follows, ask her out, somewhere casual not to stress yourself, some place with people around, then talk more. I don't know if pay a compliment or two, to be honest at this point of my life I don't even know what's right, not to tell them they are beautiful, or the contrary. In any case with no pressures put on top of your shoulders you are just letting the thing flow naturally, and maybe you can hook up with her. And if that doesn't happen, she is not into you, whatever, it's not the end of the world, but you need to overcome the fear of rejection.
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