triphopper414 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I recently ended an year end LDR last week. He said that he was not ready for a relationship (divorced in 2010). We agreed that we should take a break and remain platonic for a bit--how long was not specified. I told him that I don't think we should talk for a while. He said to text him when I am ready to talk. And he seemed disappointed when I said that. He clearly wants to be friends. I am not sure if I want to be friends because I rarely remains friends after a relationship. However, I do miss talking to him everyday (I know this is just part of dealing with it). I don't anticipate us getting back together, but I have no clue what to say to him. I feel like I do need some closure because I am confused about a lot of things. Any tips on developing a friendship afterwards? I am asking because he said that he does like me and that he does not want to hurt me, but I don't know what that means exactly in terms of what he wants. I don't want to text him and be like "define the term break." I don't want to appear delusional.
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