vsmini Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Got into a very calm discussion last night with a group of friends. Men and women mixed from the ages of 26-37. Some single and some couples. We talked about how most women at the table would be offended if their guys went to strip clubs....either for a night out or for an occasion like a bachelor party. The immediate argument that every guy slammed down on us was that they wouldn't care if their girls went to strip clubs and got lap dances so they shouldn't care about them. So I pointed this out to them: That the reason why they seem fine with it is because most male strip clubs have an aura of fun and silliness about it. That usually women just laugh and get shy and think it's ridiculous. But what if their girlfriends were going to the strip clubs to get off. Guys go to strip clubs and usually get erections - would they like that if a woman got equally as turned on by watching a male take off his clothes and rub around on her? The saw my point. Do you?
alexlakeman Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 OF course I wouldn't like it, but life's not fair and most of society would agree with me, even females.. "It's not the same thing"... In my decades of being with women I've never had one ask me to go to a male strip club... In my case, I prefer to go to a strip club with my g/f.. and actually the last , hmm, 3-4 yrs I've only been to strip clubs exclusively with a g/f... and we had a blast ... Then , again I am not "into" strip clubs with my buddies etc.. I guess another level of lifestyle. I don't see the point in plunking down $100 for what? I won't even get laid. I might as well, buy a bottle of wine and get laid at home for much less and for sure get laid, lol
sweetjasmine Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 The saw my point. Do you? Yep, and I agree that it's a different type of environment for women and that most go there to laugh and not get turned on. Another question to ask is, "Would you be okay with your girlfriend stripping down to a thong and rubbing her body all over another man?" If it's okay to be on the receiving end, it should be okay to be on the giving end.
Woggle Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I would be okay with my wife going to see a Twilight movie.
denise_xo Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Yep, and I agree that it's a different type of environment for women and that most go there to laugh and not get turned on. Another question to ask is, "Would you be okay with your girlfriend stripping down to a thong and rubbing her body all over another man?" If it's okay to be on the receiving end, it should be okay to be on the giving end. Amen. This point is so often missed in these kind of discussions.
rafallus Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I do not go to strip clubs myself, so I expect a partner that doesn't either.
Author vsmini Posted June 11, 2011 Author Posted June 11, 2011 Yep, and I agree that it's a different type of environment for women and that most go there to laugh and not get turned on. Another question to ask is, "Would you be okay with your girlfriend stripping down to a thong and rubbing her body all over another man?" If it's okay to be on the receiving end, it should be okay to be on the giving end. See I was going to mention this exact scenario in my OP because I have used the exact same example when in discussion with men/women and the men always laugh and say THAT'S TOTALLY DIFFERENT. And it never goes beyond that. Like they won't even address it because they say it's such a different scenario that it can't even be compared. I don't agree with them at all and I get frustrated so I just say eff it. I think they get my point when I bring up that example but maybe the visual of their GFs rubbing on another man while she is naked is too upsetting to them so they don't even want to discuss it. That's what I figure.
mo mo Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Got into a very calm discussion last night with a group of friends. Men and women mixed from the ages of 26-37. Some single and some couples. We talked about how most women at the table would be offended if their guys went to strip clubs....either for a night out or for an occasion like a bachelor party. The immediate argument that every guy slammed down on us was that they wouldn't care if their girls went to strip clubs and got lap dances so they shouldn't care about them. So I pointed this out to them: That the reason why they seem fine with it is because most male strip clubs have an aura of fun and silliness about it. That usually women just laugh and get shy and think it's ridiculous. But what if their girlfriends were going to the strip clubs to get off. Guys go to strip clubs and usually get erections - would they like that if a woman got equally as turned on by watching a male take off his clothes and rub around on her? The saw my point. Do you? no there is no point. In fact, I think you're dead wrong. I know from experience that women get super freaky at strip clubs and bachelorette parties. In fact, I know someone that was a male stripper and there were times where women tried to go down on him. Don't try to act all innocent like women aren't super sexual creatures. Men with experience know the deal. When you go all out and get freaky you try to blame it on the alcohol. Riiiiiiiht FYI I have gone to strip clubs plenty of times and have never gotten off.
Wolf18 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 There's a far better chance a SO will cheat a Male strip club than at a female one. I don't know if you've ever been to a strip club, but most of them have strict no touching policies, are extremely expensive, and if you want more (even though they don't even tell you what more entails, which is usually just a little more touching in the champagne room ) it costs about 5-600 bucks. Meanwhile, I've never been to a female oriented strip club, but it's far far worse. My buddy worked as one for a year and it's completely deregulated, stuff like that completely throws a womans instincts off. You got some extremely buff 'hunk' with a 9 inch penis swinging in your face, a lot of women can't help themselves and start to masturbate the guys, some even perform fellatio on them. If you were to try and pull anything remotely similar to that with a female stripper you would get your ass beat by bouncers and thrown the hell out, male strippers will let you if you're hot. But it's all "fun" because you're all laughing while your girlfriends cheat on their boyfriends with some random muscle man, right Women are just as visual and objectify men just as much as vice a versa, but women still get victim benefit of the doubt and when they do something its like completely different.
mo mo Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 There's a far better chance a SO will cheat a Male strip club than at a female one. I don't know if you've ever been to a strip club, but most of them have strict no touching policies, are extremely expensive, and if you want more (even though they don't even tell you what more entails, which is usually just a little more touching in the champagne room ) it costs about 5-600 bucks. Meanwhile, I've never been to a female oriented strip club, but it's far far worse. My buddy worked as one for a year and it's completely deregulated, stuff like that completely throws a womans instincts off. You got some extremely buff 'hunk' with a 9 inch penis swinging in your face, a lot of women can't help themselves and start to masturbate the guys, some even perform fellatio on them. If you were to try and pull anything remotely similar to that with a female stripper you would get your ass beat by bouncers and thrown the hell out, male strippers will let you if you're hot. But it's all "fun" because you're all laughing while your girlfriends cheat on their boyfriends with some random muscle man, right Women are just as visual and objectify men just as much as vice a versa, but women still get victim benefit of the doubt and when they do something its like completely different. Bingo. The people OP was talking to either didn't know the truth or were too afraid to say it.
Wolf18 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I don't see the point in women going to a strip club. If you really like that and are a woman then you can just go to the gym where muscular guys outnumber women 10 to 1, they'll probably get naked for you and let you wank them for free .
TheLawmaker Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Yeah, male strip clubs are different than female strip clubs. At a male strip club, the most you'll get is a lapdance. At a female strip club, you can give blowjobs, get ****ed, and etc. It's completely different.
alexlakeman Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Wow, is that how it really is in male strip clubs? I've obviously seen videos online of bachlerette parties with the guy going around the circle of women and each woman sucking him off touching his d1ck, etc.. but didn't really put it as it cold really happen..
rafallus Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Yeah, I have seen some crazy footage from a strip club with some bulky male strippers undressing, flexing, and dancing on stage (in no particular order). Women in front of them were screaming like little girls, some that were just by the stage, grabbed stripper's dicks and either jerked them off or gave them a BJ.
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