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How do I deal with/respond to an ex contacting me again?


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Quick background: My ex and I dated for about 3 years ago and broke up with me 2 months ago and almost immediately started seeing someone else. I tried the whole get back together thing at first but realized it was worthless and gave her space.

 

Then randomly a few weeks ago I noticed I had been removed from all social networks she was on. I emailed and asked why and she responded with stating she didn't like seeing me single and told me she didn't want to talk to me.

 

Yesterday, I get an IM her after no communication just making small talk. It was the first conversation we have had since the breakup that didn't involve discussing our relationship and was nice. We kind of just caught up, but now I find myself grabbing onto hope again and I'm pretty sure she is still dating this guy. The conversation ended with me tell her I was busy and had to go, no fighting and nothing negative.

 

My question is why would she contact me after telling me she didn't want to talk to me and what should I take this contact as? Should I contact her again or just wait until she does again?

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Could be a combination of things. Let us know when she contacts you again because that will tell us more of her motive. She could

 

A)Want to be friends

B)Feel guilty about the break and is thus relieving that guilt by contacting you

C)Be just confused

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Just wait, and don't get your hopes up. You're right to just accept that it's over. She broke it off, it's up to her to fix it if she wants to. If all she want is friendship, then it's up to you to decide whether you will be unduly upset seeing her with other blokes in the future. Personally, I wouldn't touch that with a barge pole.

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Yeah I'd ignore it. I tried to stay friends with my ex. Really bad mistake as I'm in total denial mode. He did it to ease his guilt I suspect and sounds like your ex gf is probably doing it for the same reasons.

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