RuinedLife Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Wow! Now that IS over the top pathetic begging!! I'm ashamed to admit that I did get close to that point in email form. Not quite that bad but still... Terrible right? That was a low point for me.
Author Karala Posted June 11, 2011 Author Posted June 11, 2011 I find watching that video painful but at the same time cathartic... I've felt this way for sure. Whether you act upon it or not... Not a good place to be.
RuinedLife Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I find watching that video painful but at the same time cathartic... I've felt this way for sure. Whether you act upon it or not... Not a good place to be. I feel like I could almost resort to this is I saw my ex again. But I know it wouldn't work. The opposite may work, but I highly doubt it after everything thats come between us
Author Karala Posted June 11, 2011 Author Posted June 11, 2011 lol, you need to see the rest of the movie and check if you still feel like going this route ^^ By the way, I suppose you've already read Gator's Guide to NC and Second Chances, haven't you? " Every decision you make right now is guided by your emotions and the first thing they say is fight as hard as you can for the relationship. Well they couldn’t be more right. Fight, by going into NC" By the way RL, have you decided on any contact/no contact policy with your ex yet?
RuinedLife Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 lol, you need to see the rest of the movie and check if you still feel like going this route ^^ By the way, I suppose you've already read Gator's Guide to NC and Second Chances, haven't you? " Every decision you make right now is guided by your emotions and the first thing they say is fight as hard as you can for the relationship. Well they couldn’t be more right. Fight, by going into NC" By the way RL, have you decided on any contact/no contact policy with your ex yet? I'm pretty sure I've messed up any chances that I have of getting back with my ex. Even if a major part of my brain lives in denial and I think about my ex 24/7 and I'm NOT exaggerating. I think about him no matter what I'm reading, listening to, watching, doing... it never ends. What ever I'm doing he's there with me in my brain. Its like his image has been imprinted on my brain in indelible ink. No contact policy has been decided upon. Trying NC, but have been in contact via email. Last email was a crazy one sent by me over a week ago now and have been too terrified to check my emails since then. I know if he hasn't replied or its a negative reply I'll flip my lid again
kittycat95 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Great video clip! A really good reminder of what it LOOKS like to act so pathetic and desperate. Sometimes when you're "in the moment," calling frantically, or sending those desperate emails, you don't realize exactly HOW you look. Thank you for posting. It's an example of what NOT to do.
Royal Guy Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 That video made me cry, even I have tried hard begging although a lil lesser. I'm pretty sure I've messed up any chances that I have of getting back with my ex. Even if a major part of my brain lives in denial and I think about my ex 24/7 and I'm NOT exaggerating. I think about him no matter what I'm reading, listening to, watching, doing... it never ends. What ever I'm doing he's there with me in my brain. Its like his image has been imprinted on my brain in indelible ink. No contact policy has been decided upon. Trying NC, but have been in contact via email. Last email was a crazy one sent by me over a week ago now and have been too terrified to check my emails since then. I know if he hasn't replied or its a negative reply I'll flip my lid again NC means not acknowledging their mails as well so don't read his mails either especially if you fear it will take you back to day 1. I know the phase which is on right now is stuck at day one but the pain would be a lil lesser if not very less as compared to day 1.
RuinedLife Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 That video made me cry, even I have tried hard begging although a lil lesser. NC means not acknowledging their mails as well so don't read his mails either especially if you fear it will take you back to day 1. I know the phase which is on right now is stuck at day one but the pain would be a lil lesser if not very less as compared to day 1. I have to read his emails though, because I can't draw a line under our relationship until I get all my stuff back from his house Its been over 4 months now, but I've been too ill to get it yet.
Royal Guy Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I have to read his emails though, because I can't draw a line under our relationship until I get all my stuff back from his house Its been over 4 months now, but I've been too ill to get it yet. Oh, I didn't knew that. . Take care ya. By the way is it possible to send some friend over to collect everything? This way you won't have to face him and worry for NC break.
RuinedLife Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I'm having a bad moment tonight and reaching that "I want to beg for my ex's forgiveness point"... The heartache pain is just so unbearable Seems like there is only 2 ways out... neither of them pretty... and neither of them feasible... So that leaves .. no way out!!
Author Karala Posted June 14, 2011 Author Posted June 14, 2011 By the way, if any of you need to feel better afterwards (sort of) : Such a great movie by the way, but you probably shouldn't be watching it just when going through a breakup... Definitely watch it in a few months' time though, for perspective ^^
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