Dust Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Was going to, until she laid that whole friends thing. Lol You should have tried kissing anyways would have answered things better then we can. I remember once I took a girl out to dinner, paid, even was flirty and touchy. It wasn’t until I kissed her that she said “so, is this a date?” I was in shock, I was like “are you glad this is a date” and she said “yes” she was glad it was a date and that she just didn’t know till we kissed.
youngskywalker Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 You should have tried kissing anyways would have answered things better then we can. I remember once I took a girl out to dinner, paid, even was flirty and touchy. It wasn’t until I kissed her that she said “so, is this a date?” I was in shock, I was like “are you glad this is a date” and she said “yes” she was glad it was a date and that she just didn’t know till we kissed. Agree 100% and your story shows how important it is to build a little sexual energy early on. The OP may not be as savvy as he thinks. Perhaps she read him as being not that interested. Thus, she didn't want to throw herself out there to him. I once had a wonderful second date with this girl and I totally dropped the ball on kissing her. She brought the moment right to me on a silver platter but I felt a little nervous and didn't go through with it. I never got a third date! I learned my lesson and never made that mistake again. OP get a second date, get a little romantic and kiss her. Your questions will be answered. But MOST importantly all her questions will be answered too.
vsmini Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Yes, of course I paid.. You know...when I go out with my friends we split the bill. And if I'm out with a guy and I know I just want to be friends...I insist we split it so he doesn't get mixed signals. But then again...I'm not a some chick looking for an ego boost who keeps her options open at the expense of someone else's feelings or emotions.
Author mleung999 Posted June 12, 2011 Author Posted June 12, 2011 Agree 100% and your story shows how important it is to build a little sexual energy early on. The OP may not be as savvy as he thinks. Perhaps she read him as being not that interested. Thus, she didn't want to throw herself out there to him. I once had a wonderful second date with this girl and I totally dropped the ball on kissing her. She brought the moment right to me on a silver platter but I felt a little nervous and didn't go through with it. I never got a third date! I learned my lesson and never made that mistake again. OP get a second date, get a little romantic and kiss her. Your questions will be answered. But MOST importantly all her questions will be answered too. Yes, that's an option too. I'll may end up waiting a few days, then just ask her if she still wants to go on that trip. But not so soon, imo. Normally, I'd wait 2-3 days, but in this case, I don't want her to think that she can get away with testing me like that, if in fact it was a test. If she still wants to go, I think that would be a positive sign.
youngskywalker Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 (edited) Yes, that's an option too. I'll may end up waiting a few days, then just ask her if she still wants to go on that trip. But not so soon, imo. Normally, I'd wait 2-3 days, but in this case, I don't want her to think that she can get away with testing me like that, if in fact it was a test. If she still wants to go, I think that would be a positive sign. No, forget about the trip. Don't bring it up. Your agenda right now is to get a second date and find out if she's interested in being more than just friends. Edited June 12, 2011 by youngskywalker
Author mleung999 Posted June 12, 2011 Author Posted June 12, 2011 Well, that didn't take long, although I have no idea of why she messaged me this. She just texted me telling me that she may not go on her trip. And this relates to me how?!? But I guess her messaging me is a sign of interest. Ideas of how I should respond?
Dust Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Since you don’t have a date setup how about calling and setting something fun up for the near future. Heck maybe she is free for lunch or dinner today.
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