Alexandré Posted April 17, 2004 Posted April 17, 2004 OK a few months ago I had this date with this girl I liked. I thought it was too early to be going on a date with her because she just broke up with her boyfriend of a month, but her sister said she was ready, so we went out. Well on this date I learned shes kinda hypersexual and there was some groping . Well a day or so after that she wrote me this note saying she really wasnt ready and that she was sorry for leading me on. I was cool about this, so I went on. Well apparently this guy meant more to her than she let on, and there was some deal with an suicide attempt or something. Well she was gone from school for a few weeks and when she came back I barely saw her. Well then Wednesday I was walked from class and I passed her and said hi and she said hi back but she didnt seem really stoked to talk to me. Well then Thursday she called me and told me that shes been thinking about me alot and that she wants to give things a try again. I said I was interested in trying again as well, but I think that may had been a little spur of the moment because I'm not so sure anymore. Should I just pass this up? I kinda worry about her mental stability.
overseas2004 Posted April 17, 2004 Posted April 17, 2004 You kind of worry about her mental stability? That is a laughable statement. It should be the first thing you are concerned about. That is a very serious thing. And take it from me I just broke up with someone who had borderline personality disorder. It's not worth it. These types will take you on a roller coaster ride of your life....
Fedup&givingup Posted April 17, 2004 Posted April 17, 2004 Honestly, I think using the term "mental stability" is a little shaky. I know what you are talking about in saying it, but it's more or less whether or not you feel that she's ready to be involved with someone else or not. GOOD for her that she told you straight up that she didn't want to lead you on. There's potential for this based on that alone. She's shown you that she's very interested in you, but she needs to get over the other guy. BTW,she only dated the other guy for a month....hmm....maybe you were accurate in questioning her mental stability, because a month is NOT that long to really get attached to someone. I say test the waters with her, it won't hurt. You are already aware of what is going on because she's been honest and upfront with you about it. Take her cues from this point, though.
Author Alexandré Posted April 17, 2004 Author Posted April 17, 2004 Well she said it herself that she was over him and it did take a little time and thats why it took her a few months to want to start things with me again. Plus I may be right in the mental instability issue but maybe not, after all shes known the guy for many years and is in a few school clubs with him. Should I also be consider about how hypersexual she is? I heard through the grapevine that one of the reasons he dumped her was because she was SO horney and that she wanted it all the time.
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