ryandxtreme Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 (edited) hii everyone!!!i broke up with my 3 year old gf about 4.5 months back...we both are quite young...she's 18 and i'm 20..this post is long but i have to tried to fit in all thedetails..so please bear with me... before we broke up i could sense something was wrong since i could feel her slow withdrawal...she had cheated on me once around a year back but we had kind of walked past it...however when we finally broke up over a spat it was a huge blow for me..i begged,pleaded and cried-literally did all the mistakes but all in vain.. i tried to go nc but she would call me up and i just couldn't resist myself from taking her call..it was like a drug-addiction ..i stopped carrying my cell with me..but still i couldn't help it.. after a fortnight later she started giving her reasons for breakup..they varied from her desire to focus on her career to my being over-possessive and family problems..yeah,after the cheating incident i had become overpossessive but never to the extent she was about me... during this period she would abuse me and lambaste me over the phone while i would listen silently tears rolling down my cheek..all she felt was that i was a curse in her life..it seemed that all the problems in her life started and ended with me:rolleyes: again i went to a 10 days nc...she called me up..the violence in her voice wasn't there and she was asking me if i have made a new gf or not...she didnt seem to understand why i hadnt called her..then she asked if i would take her back in the future and i was dumb enough to say "yes".. she didnt follow up...and i went to nc once more making it clear to her that we couldn't be friends... yes,u are right!!! she didnt stop calling me and we have been going on in this cycle again and again.. 3 days back she called me out of the blues after 3 weeks of nc...she said she was having a horrible,boring life and that she has come to realize now how much she had hurt me when i had really done nothing wrong...she believed god wouldnt pardon her ever..however this time around i can feel a positive vibe about a possible reconcilation...she has been asking me out for the last three days and i have been making excuses...hence,my dilemma..do i call her up and ask her plain and simple if she wanted to give it a fresh start??...or do i wait and see where she leads me to even this time???as a matter of fact i havent asked her to make up with me since march(which was a month after the break up) p.s:my ex is a bit shy type and i dont see her coming straight to me and talk about reconcilation...she needs a bit of a build-up Edited June 11, 2011 by ryandxtreme
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