brightrose Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 A question for the men, what do you prefer in a woman regarding their age? Do you prefer a woman who's older, younger or the same age as you? What about a woman who's younger... how much younger are you willing to go? Is there a thrill or greater attraction for women who are young enough to be your daughter (but old enough to be a WOMAN)? How do you feel about dating a woman (or the idea of doing so...) that much younger? I know each man will feel differently, but I am curious how you all feel! Thanks for offering your feelings!
Thatguyintx Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Ok, I'll bite. Yes, i have dated younger. Biggest difference was 12 years (36 to her 24). Great woman, just would not work out longbterm Yes, I have dated older. As much as 8 years difference (45 to my 37). I let this one slip through my fingers and should not have. Prefer same age or older. Much more in common. I prefer the experience and maturity over the youthful looks and energy. Just my $.02
Author brightrose Posted June 11, 2011 Author Posted June 11, 2011 Well, thanks for giving your 2-cents... and a second part to the initial question: how would you feel if you were a bit older and a woman 20 years younger asked you on a date? I was once asked out by a man who was probably at least 30 years older than me, in which case I was NOT interested (talk about age gap...), but now I'm finding myself in a bit of the reverse roll. Not sure how to approach it, I'm curious how men feel about this (of course, continuing to remember that each one will feel differently...). I'm okay with this age gap, I just wish I knew how he felt before making myself too known. Thanks again!
oaks Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 A question for the men, what do you prefer in a woman regarding their age? I'm not worried about the age as far as it just being a number, so older or younger isn't an issue up to the point where I could be her father or son. I would be concerned that someone, say, 15 years older or younger than me would have very different life experiences which might make it hard to sustain a relationship. Also, I'd like to date someone I find attractive, and at the moment I'm not finding as many women attractive when they're significantly older than me than when they're my age or younger. Biggest age gaps I've dated recently: 5 years older than me, and 10 years younger. Didn't have anything in common with the youngster, and the older woman was too crazy.
Badenov Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 It depends on what age he's at. If he's young (20's), he may prefer older, experienced women. 30-year-olds tend to look for women the same age, and by the time he his 40, he's thinking a few years younger
Thatguyintx Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Well, thanks for giving your 2-cents... and a second part to the initial question: how would you feel if you were a bit older and a woman 20 years younger asked you on a date? I was once asked out by a man who was probably at least 30 years older than me, in which case I was NOT interested (talk about age gap...), but now I'm finding myself in a bit of the reverse roll. Not sure how to approach it, I'm curious how men feel about this (of course, continuing to remember that each one will feel differently...). I'm okay with this age gap, I just wish I knew how he felt before making myself too known. Thanks again! I am not sure I am the norm. Most of my friends would love to attract a woman significantly younger. I personally am not. Been there done that. No offense to the younger women, but as a man in his early forties I am looking for similar life experiences. I dont want any more kids of my own, but most young women do. The young woman I dated ended up marrying a man older than me. But he wanted kids and they have a kid now. She kept telling me she didn't want kids but I could see the look in her eye when she saw babies. Having said all that, if I were you, I would still approach him. Your experiences will vary! Wishing you the best!
smudge21 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I've never really focused on age - if I get along with someone and am attracted to them I just let nature run its course. My last girlfriend was 16 years younger, before that, 4 years older. Throughout my life, ages have varied. At 21 I was seeing someone in their thirties. I can honestly say thought that I have never dated anyone the same age as me... which is kinda' odd when you think about it. If you like someone and you share common interests and see a potential relationship, then you shouldn't let societys views on age get in the way. As long as it's legal, then make the most of it.
nyc_guy2003 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 My wife is 2 years younger than me. I am in my early 30s -- if I was single right now and looking for a relationship I would be willing to go anywhere from 25 to 32. If I was looking to just have short-term sex the age wouldn't matter (as long as she was legal of course), just as long as she was attractive.
Damien Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 My ex was 2 years older than me (I'm now 21). I met her online when I was 17, few months later I mustered up the courage and flew over to the Netherlands to meet her in person. Enough of that, personally I prefer dating someone more 'mature' but that is also something that varies a lot. My ex was older than me yet pretty immature, even worse than the girls my own age!. But I am only in my 20s so my mindset may change over time (Gah! =/ )
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