TheLawmaker Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Its not a game. Its a war out there. Men are trying to have sex with as many women as they can without giving any commitment while women are trying to get the wealthiest man they can into legal entrapment so that he will provide for them for the rest of his life. Honestly, both sides are taking casualties in this war. However, the effect on the male victims is usually heavier and more long lasting. Don't forget sexual experience. Women all want someone who's a player, who can "turn them on"...then they want to trap him into a marriage. Well, of course he won't be trapped, since he can have lots of sex with other women! Women refuse to accept this, but they would rather have sex with a male slut than a good, respectful virgin.
musemaj11 Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Don't forget sexual experience. Women all want someone who's a player, who can "turn them on"...then they want to trap him into a marriage. Well, of course he won't be trapped, since he can have lots of sex with other women! Women refuse to accept this, but they would rather have sex with a male slut than a good, respectful virgin. To be fair we all want someone we find sexually desirable. Even you too.
Jazzari Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 I think most people are looking to love and be loved in return. All the rest is just icing on the cake. There are some that only want the icing, but eat too much of that and you're just going to make yourself sick. Some are happy with just the cake. Me? I want it all.
sally4sara Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Fee Fie Fo Fum! I smell the blood of a girl who has never had an orgasm. Lots of women getting used for what? If you have sex with someone and afterwards they turn out to not be what had you wanting to have sex in the first place - get to know your partners a bit better before having sex with them. Sex is for pleasure and if that pleasure isn't enough for you its because you were sold on a fraudulent product and the feeling of being tricked out weighed the pleasure you experienced. Since quite a few men just plain suck in bed, it benefits women to know who they sleep with well enough to be sure the guy will give a damn about their pleasure. Sex isn't to obtain marriage. Marriage will not magically make everything else in life fall into blissful place whether you are a man or a woman. Put more pride and care into being a blissful solo entity if you want to one day be a blissfully married person. It will keep you from choosing a poor LT partner that you will end up divorcing one day after you realize getting married didn't make everything in your life perfectly resolved. If you're ****ing to find a husband you're going to be disappointed every time. Do it because you found a person you enjoy so much that you WANT to even if it doesn't result in marriage/LDR.
In The Green Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 (edited) Its not a game. Its a war out there. Men are trying to have sex with as many women as they can without giving any commitment while women are trying to get the wealthiest man they can into legal entrapment so that he will provide for them for the rest of his life. Honestly, both sides are taking casualties in this war. However, the effect on the male victims is usually heavier and more long lasting. In going with your "war analogy". Your last line does not measure up. The woman's version of a casualty is a pregnant single mom (men getting what they want without commitment). A male casualty just gets butthurt. (I should clarify on this - prior setence refers to men rejected for lack of money. If he did sign a legal document which makes him vulnerable, then that's a right mess) Below are musings I have on women wanting men to have money: Men trying to sleep with as many women as they can without commitment is irresponsible and hurts society in the long run. I don't get why men cry about women wanting a man to have money. It's the equivalent of bringing home the bison back in the old days. Its a safety net, especially if she has children. If you have no money at all then you represent an unstable, unsafe environment to possible future children. The women herself will then have to work doubly hard to bring in more money, and with the possibility of then having to take on childcare in the future...you suddenly look a lot less attractive or worse, just another mouth to feed. Edited June 11, 2011 by In The Green clarity
welikeincrowds Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 1. Go to a good bookstore, preferably independent 2. Look through all the different sections 3. Realize that the world is full of masterpieces written by brilliant minds 4. Realize that instead, you're reading The Playbook: It's All a Game Until You Get Married 5. Buy some better books
Eve Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 1. Go to a good bookstore, preferably independent 2. Look through all the different sections 3. Realize that the world is full of masterpieces written by brilliant minds 4. Realize that instead, you're reading The Playbook: It's All a Game Until You Get Married 5. Buy some better books Take care, Eve x
Velociraptor Posted June 11, 2011 Posted June 11, 2011 Most women LOVE the game. They love to play hard to get MUCH more so than men like to chase women who play hard to get. Only a small tiny minority of all women don't play hard to get and dislikes the "game".
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