lovedeee Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 so ive been living with my boyfriend of 8 months for about 4 months now. i have a good relationship with my parents and i wasnt kicked out or anything, we just wanted to be with eachother more bcus even before i lived with him i spent ALL my free time with him. well me and him have some issues. but we cant seem to ever stay away from eachother even when we decide to break up it never lasts long. before i lived with him we would get into fights bcus he would get really jealous of a friend of mine (a guy) who i would hang out with sometimes. and those fights would really escalate and we would break up, and get back together.. since then i hardly ever speak to any of my friends bcus i dont want him to get upset and start an arguement. now that im living with him ive found stuff that i dont like about him, like how when we get into fights and i start crying he just walks away, and how i basically changed everything about myself for him but he doesnt change some things i dont like about him for me. he says he will, but he still hasnt. i feel like i try so hard for us but he just doesnt even make an effort. i love him so much, and he is a great boyfriend but i dont know how much longer i can deal with this. everyday i am tempted to move out and he doesnt even try to get me to stay. but once im gone he calls and asks me to come back. i tell myself everytime that this is the last time but i just cant stay away, i always end up back in the same situation. i want things to change so i dont want to leave anymore. how do i get him to change?
Rafaela Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 Its depend on what stuff you found about him, and if he doesnt have a female friend then its unfair to have a male friend Personally i am dealing with the same circle of fight-love, its a such a circle that you wanna get out from, you are waiting for him to get the relationship to the next level and he is expecting you to do the same Try to open a last conversation either to make things clear and move on or leave him as long he is not willing to change.
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