Damia Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 Married 20 years, together 24 -H had A with flatmate when we were dating, -one night stand(he says)while we were engaged that produced a child .I found out about that 12 yrs ago, - A with his best friends wife 3 years ago (yes i know I was a doormat to have tried to make it work with him!) -Then 8 mths ago A with the barmaid at his favorite pub,OW is 29 H is 48 I finally woke up and Separated from H.Road has been heartbreaking, sad and long but its the best thing I ever did. Starting to feel very positive and cautiously buzzing about my future.Fantastic what a good phycologist can do for you ;D.She was worth every penny I spent on her! We have 2 great kids who now see their father when he finds the time.He is living with OW 6mths. My questions are 1.will he see the hurt and damage he has done to his kids ? 2.What odds do you give his R ? It would be the icing on the cake if it crashed and burned
Woman In Blue Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 The guy's a selfish pig who lives for his d*ck. He has NO boundaries and has proven that over and over - right down to crossing the line with his supposed 'best friend's' wife. What a scumbag. Don't be surprised when his latest 'relationship' goes down in flames, because pigs like him don't change.
whichwayisup Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 Chances are high he'll be cheating again and that OW he's living with will now get a taste of what it's like to feel betrayed. Though sadly, your kids will be affected by his cheating ways that haven't stopped. All you can do is love your kids, be there for them and let them know their dad DOES love them too. He has to repair the damage he caused with them and I do hope he realizes this sooner rather than later.
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