PhillyDude Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 I find him smarmy. And now, for sleeping with thousands of women, just gross. I'm sure he's heartbroken over my new opinion of him. Oh please don't act like you never heard of a man sleeping with more than one woman
cerridwen Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Oh please don't act like you never heard of a man sleeping with more than one woman "More than one" suddenly equates to thousands? jackhole.
thehead Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 Oh please don't act like you never heard of a man sleeping with more than one woman That's a little bit of a stretch, huh dude.
Dust Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 This thread will not teach you how to be charming. You need to be yourself. If you are genuine then the women who are right for you will respond to it. The trick with being genuine is you have to give yourself permission to be yourself. If you’re always trying to say or do the right thing just because you think it will make the largest amount of people comfortable you run the risk of coming off fake. Also you can’t keep the act up forever so you’ll be faced with hoping they like the real you better. Just be polite and respectful. Most importantly be yourself. Being polite and respectful also means respecting yourself enough to walk away/deal with some one who lack respect. Being yourself mean being yourself. I can tell not many people or women have seen the real you. I can also tell you don’t really no yourself as good as you could because you are so scared. You got this. Avoid these “what do women want” threads and think more about what you want.
Stung Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 (edited) Are charisma and charm differing things? In my opinion, you can be charismatic without being charming, but you cannot be particularly charming without being at least somewhat charismatic. Charisma can be quiet, though, understated--it's not only the overblown alpha stuff everybody likes to point at on LS as if it were the be-all end-all trait. By the way, I also find Clooney overly-smarmy for my tastes, and I do find Danny DeVito rather charming, what little I know of his personality. That rogueish sparkle in his eye, maybe. I have also met many extremely charming and very elderly gentlemen (with thin pensioner's wallets). I can find a man charming and enjoyable without necessarily wanting to bend over for him, and it's a quality entirely independent of his finances. You guys are getting a little bit confused, here. The Lawmaker, are you LeaningIntoTheMuse? Edited June 12, 2011 by Stung
Ross MwcFan Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 I think being charming is just being friendly, open and looking happy.
LittleTiger Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 I think being charming is just being friendly, open and looking happy. You know what Ross, I agree with you. Though I would add to that confidence, sincerity and being respectful. Charm also has nothing to do with looks. I've seen Danny DeVito interviewed and I do think he's rather charming. George Clooney on the other hand is definitely smarmy - he lacks one of my essential charm ingredients - sincerity.
Intergalactic Posted June 12, 2011 Posted June 12, 2011 i reckon jack black's character in "the holiday" is a great example of charming. not particularly good looking, but well-dressed, funny, caring, good conversationalist, passionate about what he's chosen to do with his life, polite and thoughtful. mmmm i'd so go there.
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