superchiefs Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 that my 27 year old ex fiance's best friend is her 13 year old niece?
wilsonx Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 whats sad is my 23 year old gf left me for a 37 year old bald cook at a movie theater that lives in a trailer park... but you need to get into another mindset "IT DOESNT MATTER..." Start saying it doesnt matter. I know how hurt you are but shes no longer your girlfriend. The day you start believing it doesnt matter is the day you will start to be happy again. It really does not matter. Shes your ex just let her be and WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF and live day by day
Author superchiefs Posted June 10, 2011 Author Posted June 10, 2011 whats sad is my 23 year old gf left me for a 37 year old bald cook at a movie theater that lives in a trailer park... but you need to get into another mindset "IT DOESNT MATTER..." Start saying it doesnt matter. I know how hurt you are but shes no longer your girlfriend. The day you start believing it doesnt matter is the day you will start to be happy again. It really does not matter. Shes your ex just let her be and WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF and live day by day Yeah I know. But it is stuff like this that I look back on and it makes me think, what the heck was I thinking wanting to spend the rest of my life with this woman? She is taking relationship advice from a 13 year old! So you have to understand that me looking at stuff like this makes me feel relieved because it appears that I just dodged a huge bullet.
Nohbody Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 about the possesive nature of saying 'my ex' 'your ex' which implies some kind of ownership or attachment. When there is none. How sad is it that the only time I leave the house is to go to my VA counseling appointments? Oh wait, we're not playing THAT game.
Author superchiefs Posted June 10, 2011 Author Posted June 10, 2011 about the possesive nature of saying 'my ex' 'your ex' which implies some kind of ownership or attachment. When there is none. How sad is it that the only time I leave the house is to go to my VA counseling appointments? Oh wait, we're not playing THAT game. Hey, at least it is safe to assume that your VA counseling appointments are with an adult that knows what they are talking about when it comes to relationships.
bikinibeach Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 whats sad is my 23 year old gf left me for a 37 year old bald cook at a movie theater that lives in a trailer park... lmfao!!!!!
wilsonx Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 lmfao!!!!! yea rough stuff isnt it... what I haven't mentioned is that this is the 2nd time shes had GIGS. The first time her and I were trying to start dating and she went and slept with one of her old friends a couple times then came back to and said we should officially start dating a few weeks later. This was back in Nov 09- Jan 10 Thats how I knew exactly what this was turning into. Sucks... I didnt know the term for it back then but I backed off a lot because she wasn't ready to date and waited
geegirl Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 whats sad is my 23 year old gf left me for a 37 year old bald cook at a movie theater that lives in a trailer park.. I'm sorry Wilson. I know this hurts you but you made me laugh so hard! The grass is definitely not greener!
wilsonx Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 (edited) Oh i know You have no idea how big of a smile I have internally while maintaining no contact. ITS BEEN 3 DAYS. The longest amount of time that we have not spoken or seen each other in 3 years and I am starting to heal I have things Im looking forward to... A new roommate (Whos going through the same thing)...Kickball League... new job... new friends All you people have to do is move forward... stop standing still Edited June 10, 2011 by wilsonx
wilsonx Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 I know Im coming off like its an easy thing but its not... it hurts like a champ everyday ... my head has hurt for 15 days straight off and on but the more and more i move forward, the less everyday my head hurts and the more I can focus on me and my goals
geegirl Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 I know what you're going through. My ex did the same. Went for a chain smoking, loud mouth, sloppy drunk who was classy enough undress and have sex with him in his driveway in the dead of winter. They deserve each other. It was unfortunate that I had to see it, but looking back, I'm glad I did. But it still hurts like hell. Yep, all you can do is keep moving forward!!
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