kleenex123 Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 He used to have a lot of girl friends before getting together with me, and after getting together with me, he started giving them cold treatments on facebook and stuffs like that. We're in a LDR and i think he does text those girls at times. I'm a very jealous person but i've brought myself to be understanding that those are just his girl friends. So i always act like i'm generous and don't mind him interacting with them through texts. However he gets disturbed by this fact and wants me to question him a lot. I guess he is just insecure. He says that he feels loved whenever i question him. If i convince myself that i shouldn't mind, i wouldn't mind and wouldn't be disturbed. But if i actually start asking questions, i would mind, truckloads because being jealous is my nature. What should i do? I'm just thinking we should both have our friends back. But he would mind if i text with other guys. So, i've never replied any guy friend's text(pure friendship) since we got together. However he does text the girls occasionally and i find it really unfair? I don't really get the picture here either. This is confusing.
john1122 Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 If you want to be with him then you should trust him.Remember he has other relation apart from this love thing.He might have good female friends,classmates etc.If you keep doubting him this might end up with regrets.If you love him then you must trust him.
Author kleenex123 Posted June 10, 2011 Author Posted June 10, 2011 I do trust him, and i want to give him space. Apparently he doesn't want space. He told me he doesn't want freedom. He wants me to question and he feels loved whenever i question him and ask a lot. And when i don't give him space, i myself, get disturbs whenever he interacts with girls.
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