heartbroken555 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Me and my ex have been separated for 5 month now. We use to fight and all, but i thought we had a great relationship, and she even insited on me moving closer to her house, to another city so we can spend more time together. After i moved, about 2-3 weeks later she dumped me. She didnt want to meet me, didnt want to talk about it, and didnt know what she wanted. I used no contact to let her get her space to think about everything, but that didnt help. :Last week after 2 month of NC, i sent her a email, she replied back saying it was the most beutifull email she ever received, and she will take time to think about us, and what to do.One week later, she calls me, and we had a 1hr phone conversation. 1st time i hear her voice in 5 month. Well, she didtn give me much, exept... 1- she lost her feelings for me, and cant help it 2- she cant picture us together ever again 3- she has now met someone else 4- even if i would work on myself, and become a super model, and be rich, she wouldnt come back im feeling a bit better since the break up 5 month ago, i was a wreck, but i still feel hurt after this conversation, she didnt give me anything, any reasons, nothing really to understand... she just fell out of love, and she feels the spark and chemistry are gone... im having a hard time beliving it.... how can she say she love me, im the love of her life, and all sorts of stuff like getting married and having kids, and making me move closer to her house, then just fall out of love..... is it me, or is it because she met someone else ?? she claims shes not in love with him ( she met him 2 month after our break up ) and her friend told me she doesnt know what she wants, she doesnt want a commitment, and she doesnt understand what she finds in this guy, hes the opposite of me, and not her style at all.. my ex is 20, and since she left me, all she has been doing is partying and dressing sexy, flirting with guys, and random dating.even her fb picture screams im a slut ! and she was nothing like that when she was with me...i guess she changed.... and i hated the way she was talking to me on the phone, she had a huge ego boost knowing i still love her for sure, and she was acting aloof, as if she doesnt care, and that shes happier without me, even though i always treated her like a queen... wth is wrong with these people who just fall out of love.. i dont get it...
Shadowburn Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 You can't control how other people feel. Some say words "I love you" without attaching deep meaning to it. So when initial infatuation is gone, it appears they fall out of love - when they never were in love int he first place. Even if it's not the case and the person really fell out of love with you, then nothing you can do about it - except for working on yourself and moving on to a better future with a person who will be loyal to you and committed to you even if you'll never become a supermodel and rich.
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