dancingfool Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Alright my situation is a bit complicated and I just wanted to know what you guys think... Me and my boyfriend are Christians, two Christians who are trying to not have sex until marriage. This of course is extremely difficult because we have both been there... needless to say we are failing and its really hard on us. He is a manager to a company so he is always really busy and stressed out so the time we have to spend with each other doesn't happen very often and is usually at night and as hard as we try not to go there it always seems to go there. He is also depressed because of stress and family issues and he loved his last job so much but he couldn't keep it... We talked about it and he said he didn't want to break up with me and he wanted to be with me, but he just doesn't know if we can be together right now because he doesn't give me the attention I deserve and he doesn't want to be the guy who just sleeps with me and said he thinks what the best thing to do is to take a break. I agreed but now that I sit down and think about it I'm unsure what it all means...
superchiefs Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Yeah, I would be pretty confused too by what you have posted. I would say that the best course of action would be to sit down with him and get the exact details of what taking a break means for the both of you and you should also discuss how long of break you plan to take.
Nohbody Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 Are you members of a congregation, church, chapel, temple or some other place of worship? I'd recommend bringing your problems before a shepherd like a priest - most of whom receive some form of relationship counseling training. Use the services available to you when making a decision like this.
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