Is it all about placement, too?

[irc333]

The last post about the gentleman's victory at the grocery store raised another question.

 

Apparently, he was in line behind a woman he had a thing for....another cashier approaches him saying that they just opened this register.

 

The Grocery Line:

 

1. Just say, "No, that's okay, I'm fine here

2. Go into the empty line so you didn't make it too obvious because if you chose to STAY in same line as the woman, you'd be labeled as "creepy."

 

But, how can a woman know why or why you did not stay or leave that line. Maybe she didn't even notice?

 

Arena/Class seating decision:

 

But this can go beyond that, let's say your going to class in college, you arrive early, and there's only one very attractive woman sitting in a seat out of 100 seats.

 

Do you:

 

1. Sit as far as possible from her

2. Sit in the chair right next to her?

3. Draw this out over along period of time, each day find a seat closer and closer to her until you're sitting right next to her.

 

This can be at any event that has some kind of arena sitting or classroom environment.

 

Timing your walk

 

Okay, let's say you're getting out of class or an large seating enviornment, you leave the room, and want to find an opportunity to walk with her or something. You have to some how time your walk where you GIVE yourself an opportunity to intercept each other.

 

Perhaps gather your things slowly if she's taking her time, of if she's a fast mover, move faster.

 

I'm not sure if there was even a post on this, but I think these are very common situations.

 

But have you or known people in situations that had tried to strategically BUILD up an opportunity to meet a woman in such a manner?

[Cee]

I think you need to focus on the main part of the story. There was eye contact. And when he looked at her later, she looked back at him in a pleasant way. So he took a chance. Without eye contact & him making a bold move, there'd be no story.

 

Use those "eye games" and the wimmins will come running.

[irc333]

There was eye contact.

 

Nah, never works with me, I think they don't notice me looking or something, so I just strike up a conversation regardless. lol