fwang Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 So I knew this guy through a female friend (let's call her Mary) 2 weeks ago. He never ask me out for a date, but he would invite me to meet his friends, such as watching sports or doing BBQ together, excluding my friend Mary. Mary is kind of upset by this cuz she likes him but she thinks that he is more into me. But how? There is no 1 VS 1 date at all. So two days ago, we had this conversation. That's what he said. " You don’t know how to play games in dating. A guy smart like me will definitely notices it and takes advantage of you since you don't know the game rules. However, if I date you, I will feel guilty since I am playing games all the time. You know, you are in America. Guys in this country always play games and try to fuxx your mind. But I do find you attractive and want to know you better. So now, I will be your friend first to see where it goes. ” For some reason, I feel insulted by his BS. I think he is overconfident. What do you think?
tigressA Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Red. Flags. Everywhere. This guy admits he plays games to no end and then talks down to you like a naive little child. That's ridiculous. Cut him off.
Elisa89 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 I think your reaction is normal. I too would feel insulted because he think super high of himself and doesn't show any respect for your personality.
abbeylouwho Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Um yeah, I'd be insulted too. He sounds like a complete jerk talking down to you like that. He's not as smart as he thinks he is haha
Silivren Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 OMG!! How condescending!!! I would totally be pissed! He's basically said that you are a relationship juvenile.. that you are easy pickin's.. that he could have you if he wanted to, he could pretty much get away with anything with you because you are so naive and that he is basically deciding if he wants you or not... Clearly he views women as playthings not as people and I would stay the hell away from him.. and your friend is better off without him as well!
vsmini Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Hand this guy over to Mary with a smile. Who needs that jerk. Maintain self-respect and don't be "friends with him to see how it goes." He's a game player and he's single - clearly he has nothing to offer anyone.
Author fwang Posted June 9, 2011 Author Posted June 9, 2011 OMG!! How condescending!!! I would totally be pissed! He's basically said that you are a relationship juvenile.. that you are easy pickin's.. that he could have you if he wanted to, he could pretty much get away with anything with you because you are so naive and that he is basically deciding if he wants you or not... Clearly he views women as playthings not as people and I would stay the hell away from him.. and your friend is better off without him as well! He did mention about it. I think he is still trying to fuxx my mind.
vsmini Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 How old is he? DO NOT tell me he's some 24 year old piss-ant that thinks he has everything figured out about women.
Ouroboros Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 That he can't use proper English should tell you all you need to know. He's a child or mentally disabled. Either way it isn't ethically right to allow this to go any further.
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