joejoe Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Hey, so my girlfriend of 4 years dumped me about 5 weeks ago, over this time there was no contact what so ever. We didnt break up over anything major like cheating or jealousy ,I think our relationship got stale and she got bored. Anyway I broke NC a couple of days ago and rang her but she didnt answer so I just accepted that was that and I couldnt do anymore. Two days later She text me however asking me how I was. We exchanged a few friendly texts, where she initiated alot of the conversation and added smiley faces to her texts. Anyway I said id chance my arm and said would she like to me for lunch. To my surprise she enthusiastically agreed. I dont want to read to much into this and think its anything more than her being friendly but I was wondering what people thought about this.
SlowBlues Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 You don't need female perspective. This means very little in terms of reconciliation, which I am believing to be what you are referring to by a "positive sign". You broke contact and she probably needed a few days to figure out how to approach the situation. So she used it as an opportunity to "check in". If you do happen to meet be cool and collected. Do not talk about the relationship and make it known that you are doing great without her, without explicitly telling her that.
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