hurtingbad1 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 I recently posted on here, that i had no contact with my ex for 4 days. I had no friends to talk to, didnt want to tell my parents. Today I went to my parents, and my mom was there. I walked in on tears, she asked me what was wrong. I eventually broke down and told her everything. She told me to text her and tell her how i feel, then i told her about the no contact rule and how it works. She said not to listen to that. Some girls like to hear you miss them and still care about them. Anyways I found out to night she misses me and wants me to come say hi tommorow. I did the no contact rule for 4 days, i hear stories of 30 days, 2 months... Im going to marry this girl if all goes good. Shes amazing!
wilsonx Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 You might be hurtingworse after you talk to her, shes going to tell you to be friends dont do it please dont do it. Just keep NC and if she really really misses you, she will come to you and tell you that she made a mistake and wants to get back. I fell for this trap the other day Your mom is wrong, my mom is wrong
superchiefs Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 I recently posted on here, that i had no contact with my ex for 4 days. I had no friends to talk to, didnt want to tell my parents. Today I went to my parents, and my mom was there. I walked in on tears, she asked me what was wrong. I eventually broke down and told her everything. She told me to text her and tell her how i feel, then i told her about the no contact rule and how it works. She said not to listen to that. Some girls like to hear you miss them and still care about them. Anyways I found out to night she misses me and wants me to come say hi tommorow. I did the no contact rule for 4 days, i hear stories of 30 days, 2 months... Im going to marry this girl if all goes good. Shes amazing! This is a tough one. I know you hope that she wants to tell you that she made a mistake and wants you back. However, you might get your hopes up, show up and she might tell you that she just misses your friendship and that she still doesnt want to be lovers. If that happens, you are going to be back to step 1 of the healing process all over again. Do you think that risk is worth giving up 4 days of healing for? If so, go for it, but just be prepared. However, my suggestion is to tell her you need some more time before you will meet her. That will give you more time to heal, and when you do meet up with her, you will be a stronger person, which should give yourself a better chance of reattracting her.
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