Fidds Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Guy meets girl, date a year, move out of town together, 10 months later guy is like ,"what the hell just happened?". I thought we were doing great, until she started to just party her ass off. Coming home in the am, and smelling like a bar rag. The thing is I never had a problem with the occasional rock out, but the way she was going about it got to the point where it was down right disrespectful to me. I brought up my concern and it ended up in an nasty argument with her telling me she wants to just be by herself. I honestly felt my heart break a little. That's not where the story ends though, we still had to live together for about another 2+ months since she was on the lease. I took up the couch and started on one the worst times in my life. As hard as it was in the beginning we became cool again and started sleeping together. Thinking things were starting to look up I tried to get us back together, doing nice things for her and just acting like a rad bf. Then came the day, I woke up to find she still wasn't back, headed to the couch with a "I know something is going down" feeling. I was right. She came home, went straight to the bedroom, and locked the door. Through the thin walls you could here her drunk ass calling someone "babe" and saying that she cant wait to see him. I was crushed. That absolutely rocked my world, how could she be doing that while we still lived together? I confronted her later that day and she admitted to having someone new in her life. I actually my heart rip in half this time.Couldn't take it anymore. Packed a bag and stayed with a buddy for about 3 weeks. Long story short, she just got the last of her things out a few days ago and we did have a bit of a reconciliation before she left. Agreed on being cool and I even went to her new place and helped set some stuff up. The truth is, I really love her. Even after what went down I had no problem accepting her apology. I finally have this place to myself and I just cant get her out of my head. I'm lonely as hell and I miss everything about her. In the back of my mind i keep wishing that she is going to realize that she wants me back, but deep down I know the chances of that are pretty slim. I'm super bummed and I need advice. This is tearing me up inside!
wilsonx Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Read up on Grass is Greener Syndrome (GIGS). Im going through it right now. Just Stop talking to her, its over. Start No Contact and start making yourself better. Listen to me when I say DO NOT TALK TO HER NO MATTER WHAT, and I will tell you a secret. She will miss you more the less she knows about whats going in your life and the less you chase. I personally would never return to an ex that did this to me but I have friends that continuously do so. START NC and Keep it Right now... You will Honestly Be Better OFF
superchiefs Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 She isnt worth any more of your time. She doesnt appreciate you. Also, if you are still living in the same place that the two of you shared, you may want to consider moving. Staying in the same place will only delay your healing process. I know you love her, but some day you will find someone else that will love you back in the way that you deserve to be loved.
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