Girl dumped me 2 weeks ago but I text her today. Should have I?

[rudguy805]

I text her today to say hi and I suggested maybe we can hang out sometime in the future, in the text. She replied instantly and said Hi back and that ya we can hang out and to just let her know when.

 

We had been dating for approximately 3 months. She dumped me 2 weeks ago and told me her reason was because her life was very hectic and she was just promoted and worked a lot of hours. She said she wanted to just focus on her job right now.

 

I want to know if it was a good idea to text her to see if she wanted to hang out? I am really confused and care a lot for her. But I dont want to screw things up by texting her when she dumped me. I was the first to initate contact but I am not sure if it was the right thing to do.

[knathema]

definitely not, you shouldn't contact her and especially do not hang out with her. You guys just broke up like 2 weeks ago, and i understand that you care a lot about her. What is your goal here? You wanna get back together with her? And if your expectations are not met then you'll go back to square 1. It's a long and painful process but hey... I am pretty much on the same boat here. It has been almost 2 months since my relationship of 3 years ended, so i feel you buddy. What you need to do right now... is focus on yourself and go NC because you'll need it to heal.

[knathema]

read this:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t281193/

and

(LOA)

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/yess-you-can-attract-your-ex

[Surf Rider]

definitely not, you shouldn't contact her and especially do not hang out with her. You guys just broke up like 2 weeks ago, and i understand that you care a lot about her. What is your goal here? You wanna get back together with her? And if your expectations are not met then you'll go back to square 1. It's a long and painful process but hey... I am pretty much on the same boat here. It has been almost 2 months since my relationship of 3 years ended, so i feel you buddy. What you need to do right now... is focus on yourself and go NC because you'll need it to heal.

 

I agree 100% with knathema. Don't text her or call her to go and hang together. Yes, of course you care about her. I did too when she dumped me but I know i deserve better than her. If you go through with it, you will regret it. Time heals all. Trust me.