Author ThatBwoii Posted June 9, 2011 Author Posted June 9, 2011 ive just read all of fthat and it is sooo true, i know for a fact now that she will miss me, she just osent at the moment and i know that she will. we just gotta go NC and let thing sort themselves out.
dreamscape123 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 it is true , just hope it does eventually apply to both yours and my situation... Time will tell , and yea NC in the mean time... Remove the power from them.
Author ThatBwoii Posted June 9, 2011 Author Posted June 9, 2011 have u got msn? better to talk on there i think
dreamscape123 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 i dont have msn , but feel free to add on facebook mate.. After you added me, i will delete this one post as i guess it has personal details on it.. Andrew Ward my picture is of me when i was in the army
Author ThatBwoii Posted June 9, 2011 Author Posted June 9, 2011 (edited) thankyou, will talk elsewhere now. Edited June 9, 2011 by ThatBwoii
Rudeman27 Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Right now she is ignoring you, and you are pushing her away by trying so hard. Find the strength in yourself and start moving on. Realize that she is the one that messed up your whole relationship. She was banging other guys, when you were true to her and your relationship. She is pre-occupied with this other guy right now, but that won't last forever. sooner or later she is going to have to deal with the hurt she caused you, and her selfish actions. But that takes time man. She need to feel the loss of your relationship, she needs to know that you are not sitting at home waiting for her to throw you a bone. Once she realizes that you are not there to be her emotional tampon she will start dealing with all of the b.s. she put you through and it was her that threw away a good thing. Do you really want her to come back ( let you back into her life ) and be her bitch. She would be calling all of the shot, not respecting your needs or feelings. That isn't a healthy relationship, that"s servitude. Stay strong man, its rough but not worth being less than a man over. I know you can do it.
Author ThatBwoii Posted June 9, 2011 Author Posted June 9, 2011 I know that i can do it, i just feel like she is still going to come running back, im scared that im going to hurt her if im over it by that point.
Rudeman27 Posted June 10, 2011 Posted June 10, 2011 I know you can do it too man. It really sucks when all you want to do is love her and have her come back and say " i know I hurt you, and I'm sorry. You are worth the effort and your feelings do matter" but sometimes that doesn't happen, you have to be prepared for that. Hope for the best, be ready for the worst. I also believe you need to be able to walk away from an unhealthy relationship. You don't want her to take you back and end up resenting her for the rest of your life, because she isn't willing to make the same amount of effort you are, and treat you the way you deserve.
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