Feeling-lost Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Hi Guys, I was just wondering if any of you had been in this situation before. Okay, me and my ex had broken up since Sept. of last year. However, even thou we don't have the label of bf-gf..we still hang out and do everything that bf&gf would do. Well, about 2 month ago I found out that he was seeing someone out of state. I was devastated, knowing that in such a short time he found someone else. I confronted him and he told me it was just a fling and him and this girl is no longer together. He begged me to forgive him and give him a second chance, which I did, but we are not completely together. We feel that we should work on our flaw first before we start becoming a couple again.. Just last week, I found out that him and this girl is still chatting on the phone. So, I told him that if he continue to do that, I do not want anything to do with him.I will walk away without looking back even it hurt me to death. He told me that him and her are just friend..and that I have nothing to worry about. She a nice girl and he doesn't want to lost a nice friend that all. I don't understand if he love me as much as he say he does..Why can't he understand that it hurt me to see or hear of them still being friend. Well, yesterday I spas out on him and he told me that if it bother me so much he will stop calling her..I don't know, if I should believe him anymore..I don't know what to do..I know that I love him very much..But, my heart can't go on like this anymore..it killing me! Link to post Share on other sites
effee Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Its not the girl or your boyfriend you should be dealing with. It's your jealously, your inconfidence that somehow in someway that girl is somewhat better than you and your boy will fall for her and leave you. But then again, dont be like me, putting absolute trust and only finding out i was being 2 timed when i saw them holding hands and she told me she was getting engaged. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Feeling-lost Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Effee, thank you for your respond. Jealously, does play a big role in this..I mean, who wouldn't be when the person that they really love was involve with someone else. I try to overcome of feeling this outrage of jealously everytime I hear about another women that he use to be involve with. I guess it has to do with the fact that his past wasn't a clean one. Link to post Share on other sites
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