yessy21 Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 Well i havent been on for a minute so here it goes. I was on Pof for a while and i met this amazing guy while on it. He moved in shortly after and he treats his kids and my daughter like diamonds. he works. cleans up. has everything you would want in someone. attractive ...very. he brings me flowers he calls me every single day.. even though we live together. he introduced me to all of his friends and family and they all rave about how into me he is. now there is two catches. one i have a serious problem and its my fault. i take total blame for this. we didnt sleep together right away... i was going to tell him i had something but i wasnt going to right away... only when i knew for sure. well after dating... he was waiting for me to get back home from hanging out with my friends. i hadnt slept with him yet. i was a little over my vodka limit and needless to say thing got hot and heavy. when i woke up the next morning... i looked around with my nasty hangover and realized what i had done. i slept with him without a condom. we are living together now and he still doesnt know and i dont have the face to tell him. i dont know why he would have unprotected sex anyhow. so i asked him how long ago he had sex and he said 3 years. thats how long he was seperated from his wife. he is flirty super sweet and very good looking. i didnt believe it. and now i found condoms in his little box. i know hes not sleeping with someone else but i know he is lying about not having sex in three years. now the biggest problem is telling him the truth. how do i say something like this to someone?
Lilmisus Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 I read this a couple of times, but I hate to say that I'm a little confused as to what you're worried about telling him Do you have an STD and didn't tell him about it, and then had drunken sex before telling him about it, and he has probably caught it? Or is it that you think he's lied about having sex within the past few years, and you feel you've caught him in the lie, and want to confront him about it? Or is it both that you want to talk to him about?
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