Author sungirl Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 Thanks to the people who have helpful posts, but this is really getting negative and out of hand, so I'm not reading anymore. Don't need more stress right now.
woinlove Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Thanks to the people who have helpful posts, but this is really getting negative and out of hand, so I'm not reading anymore. Don't need more stress right now. Sungirl, you can put specific posters on ignore by clicking on their name to bring up their profile and then under user lists is an ignore option. This way you won't see their messages but you can still get advice and support from others. I'm sorry to see posters giving you a hard time just at the time you discovered your H's infidelity and deception. Fortunately, one of them has been deleted as he was spewing nastiness over multiple threads/forums.
Toodamnpragmatic Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Sungirl, you can put specific posters on ignore by clicking on their name to bring up their profile and then under user lists is an ignore option. This way you won't see their messages but you can still get advice and support from others. I'm sorry to see posters giving you a hard time just at the time you discovered your H's infidelity and deception. Fortunately, one of them has been deleted as he was spewing nastiness over multiple threads/forums. So am I next???? People are for the most part generally concerned and realize she has been through a traumatic experience. However there is usually more then meets the eye (or what is written) in every story. The fact that questions are asked should not be ignored. Frankly the banned posted went over the line, but had some provocative questions/insight too.
StoneCold Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Sorry but if one of the spouses makes a serious mistake, then that spouse is to blame and only that spouse. . You're right...but what some are saying on this thread is....How are you so sure the OP didnt commit a serious mistake too? It reads like she may have
Mr.Harris Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 So am I next???? People are for the most part generally concerned and realize she has been through a traumatic experience. However there is usually more then meets the eye (or what is written) in every story. The fact that questions are asked should not be ignored. Frankly the banned posted went over the line, but had some provocative questions/insight too. Of course there's more to the story. But she's been cheated on so the other things do not count.
PinkInTheLimo Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 You're right...but what some are saying on this thread is....How are you so sure the OP didnt commit a serious mistake too? It reads like she may have Come on, whatever serious mistake she made, it's nowhere as bad as going to a sex worker, is it. No, the bitter truth is probably that her husband is selfish bastard and she should divorce him. He won't change, people like him only get worse with age.
Mr.Harris Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Come on, whatever serious mistake she made, it's nowhere as bad as going to a sex worker, is it. No, the bitter truth is probably that her husband is selfish bastard and she should divorce him. He won't change, people like him only get worse with age. And cheating is not even a mistake.
StoneCold Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Come on, whatever serious mistake she made, it's nowhere as bad as going to a sex worker, is it. No, the bitter truth is probably that her husband is selfish bastard and she should divorce him. He won't change, people like him only get worse with age. LOL...its so sweet...reverse justification.... This board never gets old... Not as bad as going to a sex worker? Well now neither you, me or your granny is in a position to make that conclusion.... You realize you only have half a story right...you really dont even know what you are compairing to him going to see a sexworker....you're just making wild assumptions
StoneCold Posted June 13, 2011 Posted June 13, 2011 Of course there's more to the story. But she's been cheated on so the other things do not count. ROTFLMAO....too much
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