xisnotx Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 It seems to me that I am a relationship saboteur. When I'm in a relationship, I'm looking for ways to get out of it. When I'm not in a relationship I'm looking to get in one. It's like I can never stop trying to change my life situation. Also..I'm a "love whiner"..in that if the girl in question does something that makes me like her more...I'll whine. (Ironically the things that make me like her more usually upset her.) I'll say something like "Why are you doing this to me..." or "That simple..huh?". Usually they look at me like I'm crazy (I realize now that they are right...) And, for some reason, when you are in a relationship you have girls who would otherwise never give you a second glance almost throwing themselves at you. Just yesterday I was sitting next to an attractive blonde...and the amount of "hair flipping" was ridiculous. I'm like "where the hell were you just a couple months ago??" Am I just not relationship material?
vsmini Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 Also..I'm a "love whiner"..in that if the girl in question does something that makes me like her more...I'll whine. (Ironically the things that make me like her more usually upset her.) I'll say something like "Why are you doing this to me..." or "That simple..huh?". Usually they look at me like I'm crazy (I realize now that they are right...) I have no clue what this meant. I'm so lost. Can you explain a little more?
Author xisnotx Posted June 8, 2011 Author Posted June 8, 2011 ^ I'll give you an example. I was buying something from her, but I didn't have the money on me...I really just wanted to see her. She tells me just to take it and I'll pay her back later. At this point I said something like "Don't do this to me..." I do it because she's making me realize that I'm taking advantage of the relationship. She's making me think I'm not being a good person...and meanwhile she is being way too understanding (a quality I like, to an extent). So I whine about it..knowing later I'm going to stress out about it...and knowing that underneath all the understanding is a voice telling her that I'm not treating her right (which is true..) I feel compelled to make it up to her...even though she doesn't think I've done anything wrong and I feel horrible for some time because she deserves better than that. Hence.."love whining".
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