timmytak Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 To start out I’m 25 and my ex-girlfriend is 21. For the past couple of weeks she has been having an attitude problem and I did tell her about a months ago that if we keep fighting every week I will break up with her. She gets mad at everything its crazy. I broke up with her last Saturday because the fighting would not stop and I was tired of her getting mad over every little thing. She has been trying to contact me ever since the break up(her bowling shoes are in my car and she wanted them back). Also she just sent me an e-mail regarding our sugar gliders and how she would like me to take good care of them and she also wants to be able to see them future, is that a good idea? I do love her a lot still but I could not be in a relationship where the other person gets mad at every little thing and it causes fights it didn’t seem to healthy to me. I miss her a lot and I don’t know if I made the right decision or not. [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT]
Nohbody Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 Personally, I wouldn't dump someone I loved because things were getting complicated. That being said, there was obviously something souring in your dynamic, and spending some time NC will give you an opportuinty to reflect on that (hopefully she will, too) and you may be able to make a decision on whether or not you can salvage what you have or move on.
Author timmytak Posted June 8, 2011 Author Posted June 8, 2011 Thank you for your reply Nohbody. Well it was constant fighting every week it would never stop, she would call me names, ignore me tell me not to touch her or talk to her over nothing. I was just getting tired of it and thinking of the future, and I did not want to have a future with constant fighting in it. She would stress me out with all this fighting. I didnt know what else to do, ive tried communicating with her about the whole situation but she still likes to have an attitude. She is also bi-polar.
Nohbody Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 I think you might consider some kind of couples counseling if you want to try to make it work. Living with a mental illness is very difficult, and living with someone with a mental illness is no easy task (ask the girl I used to be with!).
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