My boyfriend can't get over my past, should i move over?

[kleenex123]

He holds my past against me. The past was that i've went clubbing once(my only once) and got drunk. And on the way out, two of my boy friends held me to stand up because i tripped and fell down. Therefore there were two pictures, one of which, a pic which looked like i was enjoying myself, dancing; and the other one, of the two boys holding me up - my arms on their shoulder and their hands round my waist. But it was merely helping me to stand up. It isn't anything to do with horniness. We're traditional asians and we don't do physical contacts with opposite sex. He feels that i've broken his trust. But i did not cheat on him or anything. He has been holding that against me since last year.

 

For details of the story it's here : http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t281507/

 

We're in a long distance relationship now he's studying in US and next year i'm going to go over for him. Pursue tertiary education there. Should i? I'm so afraid that by then he can't get over it still and holds it against me.

 

I really need advices. THanks!

[wild_urge]

This is silly, you should go and you should be together. Look, if he spends some more time in the US and he will have spent some until you go there too, he'll see the liberal ways in which Americans act and he'll realise that you have not done anything wrong. I understand how in your culture this is probably a bad thing to do, but hopefully, he'll see that it is a bit too much. And if he doesn't, do you think that you want to be with someone who isn't trying to be reasonable and understanding towards you? I don't think so