What are the TELL-TALE signs that someone is cheating...? I NEED TO KNOW

[YoungSuccesful]

I need to know how you can tell if someone is seeing another person or cheating with another person...

 

Im pretty obtuse so any info will help me...

 

Thanks...

[Fedup&givingup]

There are all kinds....some are classic and very conventional while some are not so common....

 

Why don't you go ahead and describe what is going on, and that would be the best way to determine "what if"

[Fedup&givingup]

Wait, I just read your other thread, and is it YOU that is cheating, and you are trying to avoid getting caught? If that's the case, you can save yourself the anxiety of the paranoia and just knock it off.

[Jamma]

Sly, but not sly enough!

[morrigan]

There was a post on this forum "Signs of A Cheater" a while back.

 

But believe me, if this is in regards to you cheating, there is such a thing as intuition. The other person often feels something isn't right in the relationship, even if their bf/gf isn't coming home with the classic signs. If you cheat on her, chances are she will eventually find out.

[Fedup&givingup]

and Amen to that

[YoungSuccesful]

NO NO NO

 

It is not me guys...

 

I think she is cheating on me...I was blinded from noticing b/c AS YOU ALREADY KNOW FROM MY OTHER THREAD I have had OTHER THINGS on my mind for a while...

 

I was just starting to come to my senses and try and make myself THINK that this new girl was just that (SOMETHING NEW AND EXCITING) and that I needed to let it be and continue my GREAT RELATIONSHIP with my fiancee'

 

But in light of these new feelings...I'm torn yet again...so that is why I return the the WISE COUNCIL OF LOVESHACK

[Debster]

A good relationship does not have:

1) one person kissing someone else

2) one person questioning an engagement

3) concerns that one person is cheating

4) Communication issues

 

You're young and there is nothing wrong with not being ready to be married - unless of course if you are engaged. If you are doubting her faithfulness and you were considering cheating - then obviously this relationship needs to be worked on or ended. You need to decide which way you want to go.

[Fedup&givingup]

Originally posted by YoungSuccesful

NO NO NO

 

It is not me guys...

 

I think she is cheating on me...I was blinded from noticing b/c AS YOU ALREADY KNOW FROM MY OTHER THREAD I have had OTHER THINGS on my mind for a while...

 

I was just starting to come to my senses and try and make myself THINK that this new girl was just that (SOMETHING NEW AND EXCITING) and that I needed to let it be and continue my GREAT RELATIONSHIP with my fiancee'

 

But in light of these new feelings...I'm torn yet again...so that is why I return the the WISE COUNCIL OF LOVESHACK

 

Then by all means, tell us what she's doing to make you suspect she's cheating

[EmmaT]

Is there a 18 yrold college man she has been hanging around alot and making a fool of herself about? I hope u guys break up soon and she finds a man more mature then you.

[YoungSuccesful]

Harsh...

 

I consider myself to be pretty mature...I have alot more growing up to do...but why did I get hit with that from left field...?

[morrigan]

To be honest with you, if you both are pursuing other people, it would just be mature to end the relationship. Infidelity often occurs when someone is disatisfied with some part of the current relationship. That doesn't make the act of cheating any less foolish or selfish.