kaculka Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 (edited) Ok,i hope this is not going to be too long. I will try to be very brief. i have remarried about 4 years ago and i have married my best friend. We have very long history which is about 22 years. He has always been there for me but only on platonic level even when i have been married to my first husband. That relationship was very disstructive emotionaly and we have divorced after 13 years. Again my friend has been there for me stable as a rock and supportive of me. He was the only one i have trusted and sooo gentle and loving he has told me abou his feeling twards me. After 12 months we have moved in together and after 7 years we have married even i did not feel right about it as there has been issues in something i still do not understand. Ok the sex was always bit strange he would demand that i am to full on ( and yes i was bit unstable after my divorce) he would say that i want to do what i want in bed, he would ignore me, he would tell me i have put on weight, when i wanted to talk about it he woul shut me out. It took me years of trying to understand and than i have given up and decided that i do not want to go throug this anymore and told him that i prefer not to have sex as i dont want to be confused and hurt anymore but i still love him. This has been happening for 4 months and he said that i am salking. I do feel better even i do miss intimacy but i am not constantly hurt and confused. Now he is angry and is witholding other forms of intimacy from me. I really do not know what to do anymore.i am soooooooooooo confused plese help me Edited June 8, 2011 by kaculka no replies
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