green_tea Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 What annoys me more is when they keep looking, and obviously are interested but do nothing about it. If they actually approached me, I could then let them know politely that I'm not interested. This is currently happening to me at work, and it is making me VERY annoyed. This guy walks past my desk literally a hundred times a day and stares at me. I'm so sick of it. But there is absolutely nothing I can do about it.
Mrlonelyone Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 Let me decode some of the woman speak that has been used here. "I would be annoyed if the mans approach was disrespectful." really means. "It is disrespectful for a man I'm not attracted to to try and talk to me." "I would be annoyed with a man who interrupts me and my friends talking." Really means. "I would be annoyed with an unattractive man who interrupts me with my friends. I would walk away from my friends in a heartbeat with a guy who was HOT." "It's not that the man is un attractive it's that his approach was "creepy"". really means "If the man is attractive he could say.... " I want to chop you into pieces and spread the bits out in the forest preserve."... and not find him creepy." The last one may be exaggerated but not by much.
Mrlonelyone Posted June 9, 2011 Posted June 9, 2011 (edited) What annoys me more is when they keep looking, and obviously are interested but do nothing about it. If they actually approached me, I could then let them know politely that I'm not interested. This is currently happening to me at work, and it is making me VERY annoyed. This guy walks past my desk literally a hundred times a day and stares at me. I'm so sick of it. But there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Perhaps he looks because he can't say anything due to already being in a relationship (for all you know.) Or more likely he has a legit reason for it, like using the rest room or needing some kind of supplies. He glances at you as a recognition of your presence as a human being. If you want to stop being annoyed by this.... just think "I am not movie star hot. People are just going about their business. Not every man wants to **** me." Take two deep breaths and do your work. Problem solved. Edited June 9, 2011 by Mrlonelyone
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