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Giving me the silent treatment


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I'm not sure how to handle this or what to do... if anything.

 

I got upset about my bf texting this girl, who he says is a friend, and started an argument. The bad thing was he was on his way out of town for a big company conference. We went back and forth for a while via text and then he just stopped. I haven't heard from him all day today. I did finally send an email apologizing for starting the argument, but no response. It is driving me crazy. He has a habit of giving me the silent treatment when we have an argument and then just starts talking finally acting like nothing ever happened. I'm not sure what to do.

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I would just go about my business. I don't even think I would have apologized, unless you had said something really nasty or uncalled for. If he wants to sulk, just let him, I wouldn't be pulled in. Go out and do whatever you enjoy and when he gets over it, he will contact you.

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He is immature and he might never grow out of it. If it's a habit I'd say walk away and I'm speaking from experience. I had to give up on someone eventually because no matter what he always found reasons to get into a bad mood over something I did... or didn't do... or said... or didn't say... you get the idea. If your communications styles clash so much just walk. Easier said than done I know.

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