N.A. Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Does anyone have an insight as to what the "signs" would be that the affair is still going on after D-Day? I am starting to wonder....
Spark1111 Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Emotionally distant, whereabouts not fully explained, a general secretiveness, unexplained phone numbers on the bill.....inability to reach them at any given moment. Why? What seems amiss?
OldOnTheInside Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Does anyone have an insight as to what the "signs" would be that the affair is still going on after D-Day? I am starting to wonder.... Do you remember how your husband acted during his affair and before d-day? Similar signs to that I would imagine. If you notice something is off...then odds are, something is off.
Author N.A. Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 It may just be my mind going places again, but he seems WAY to overly eager to do anything that I ask of him, he is being extremely sweet, etc. It's like he is WAY over compensating. For instance, it is getting to the point where if he even thinks that I am upset, he is asking me constantly over the past 2 weeks, "Are you mad at me?", this is something new added to the mix. I keep asking him WHY on earth would I be mad at him, did he do something that I would be "mad" about? Which of course he says no, but he just seems to be acting too weird to me.
OldOnTheInside Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Dunno if he is cheating. I mean, there really isn't enough proof to jump to any conclusions. IMO it just seems like he is trying to (over)compensate for his past actions to you, like you said. Perhaps not doing it in the most subtle way.. I recommend that you see how long this new behaviour lasts...
YellowShark Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 1) Secrecy – the spouse turns off the computer monitor when someone enters the room or goes outdoors or to another room to talk on the phone. 2) Late night computer use. 3) Unexplained credit card charges or payments on the bank statement, unexplained receipts. 4) Many, long phone calls. 5) Has a secret cell phone or unknown numbers stored. 6) Has a secret e-mail address and account. 7) Has a “special friend” of the opposite sex. 8) Paying extra close attention to their appearance. 9) Inappropriately defensive when asked questions. 10) Won't show you their cell phone. 11) Unaccounted for time. 12) The way they relate to you. (becomes unusually nice, brings you more gifts than usual, and is more affectionate OR stops cuddling, kissing, or holding hands.) To name a few.
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