njruns75 Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Ok, so I'm new to dating again after being in a serious relationship for 6 years. I met this guy while I was still in my relationship last summer. Nothing romantic happened ever, and in face, he also knew my boyfriend (but not a close friend, just through other mutual friends). At that time, it was a bit obvious he was interested but never made a move bc I had a boyfriend, and also he said he didn't want to start up anything while school was in session (he is getting a degree). Flash forward 7 months and now I'm broken up with my boyfriend. I ran into this guy again and we hung out on his boat 2 times. The first time, he invited me on boat , yet didn't try anything romantic. The second time, he picked me up on boat and we cruised around... wound up back at his house and made out the entire night. I slept there. However, I didn't sleep with him. He didn't try to either (Only 2nd base!) It was so passionate and amazing, though. We could not stop making out for hours... till like 6am and it was just so romantic to me. Ok so this was Friday night. Sat. I went away with some girlfriends and he knew that.... Anway, I know he had a big exam to study for Sunday and Monday but now it's Tues and still no word from him!!! im starting to get worried. H e is done with scohol in 2 weeks btw... he takes it very seriously and studies all the time... But I wonder when I can assume he's blowing me off???
thatone Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 when you call him and suggest getting together again sometime, and he doesn't answer or return the call.
Mimolicious Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Ok, so I'm new to dating again after being in a serious relationship for 6 years. I met this guy while I was still in my relationship last summer. Nothing romantic happened ever, and in face, he also knew my boyfriend (but not a close friend, just through other mutual friends). At that time, it was a bit obvious he was interested but never made a move bc I had a boyfriend, and also he said he didn't want to start up anything while school was in session (he is getting a degree). Flash forward 7 months and now I'm broken up with my boyfriend. I ran into this guy again and we hung out on his boat 2 times. The first time, he invited me on boat , yet didn't try anything romantic. The second time, he picked me up on boat and we cruised around... wound up back at his house and made out the entire night. I slept there. However, I didn't sleep with him. He didn't try to either (Only 2nd base!) It was so passionate and amazing, though. We could not stop making out for hours... till like 6am and it was just so romantic to me. Ok so this was Friday night. Sat. I went away with some girlfriends and he knew that.... Anway, I know he had a big exam to study for Sunday and Monday but now it's Tues and still no word from him!!! im starting to get worried. H e is done with scohol in 2 weeks btw... he takes it very seriously and studies all the time... But I wonder when I can assume he's blowing me off??? Relax, you are sounding clingy. It's only been basically ONE DAY, since all the other days you or him were busy. If he takes school serious (as everyone should!) then he will probably have more time to entertain you once he is off.
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