good_vibes Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Ok, this thread is kind of LOL kind of not! Have you ever had to break up with someone who is soooo sexy and they know it and know you know it, and.... How do you do it? Over the phone?? LOL
oldguy Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 This happened to me when I was around 19 or 20 & the way I began the break up talk was; "You told me you where divorced"! Funny now, not so funny then
utterer of lies Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 (edited) Ok, this thread is kind of LOL kind of not! Have you ever had to break up with someone who is soooo sexy and they know it and know you know it, and.... How do you do it? Over the phone?? LOL "Fûck off, bîtch." Indeed, I wasn't always as eloquent as I am today Edited June 7, 2011 by utterer of lies
khria Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Hi goodvibes. Is this the painter/contractor you were writing about in your other thread? Judging from that thread, I'm not sure this person's approach to money is one that is compatible with yours, and yes, there were lots of moments in your description that it sounded like he disregarded your feelings. You deserve a gentleman with more consideration for your feelings than that. What has been your main vehicle of communication? I'd say in person, but that does depend.
Author good_vibes Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 Day-um, seems like there are a lot of hostile breakups around here Yeah it's hard in person, in part because it's like breaking up with Enrique Iglesias (ok, I love Latinos), and especially when there's not a direct reason to say F*ck off or whatever as a previous poster said! He wants to meet to talk in person but it's harder for me to do when I see him. He will crack a joke or bring up something we did that was really fun to make me laugh, etc. I don't want to make it sound like he's 100% bad, he's not, but at the same time there's probably someone better for me out there. He says he wants to change to make things better but I don't know that he can. That's why I am considering just stepping it back to dating where we see other people versus trying to be exclusive, while he tries to work things out. He also wants to spend his life with me... but I am so totally NOT ready for that yet, with anyone!
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