milkmaterial Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Im wondering how do people usually handle these kinda things, for example, you are "friends" with your ex. You usually email each other from time to time saying hello or whatever. Then you get into a relationship, it goes on for like about a year or so, you still get these emails from your ex, and not just chain letters or forwarded jokes, but personalized greetings and semi-long informative ones. Do you wait for your ex to ask you about your relationship or do you bring it up saying "oh i met this guy/girl and he/she is awesome.." ? Sometimes usually they also ask "so whats up whats going on in your life?" is this a cue for you to inform them of you being in a relationship? Back before I would use that line "whats up?" to fish info if a person was seeing someone.. Or would it be "okay" to continue on with these emails , never informing the other party that you are actually, yes, in a relationship. When someone asks me "whats up" it also leads me to tell them about my current relationship status. What does it mean if your significant other evades the question when their ex's contact them (through email, phone or whatever) and when you ask him or her they just tell you that its none of the other persons business...doesnt it seem shady? kinda like they are trying to make it seem they are single.
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