93TheHitStick Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Whats the problem here? I haven't had a ton of sexual relationships with girls. But i have been going out with this girl for a little while. And i notice that she never initiates anything more then kissing. We are still in high school so there is only certain days at certain times that we have alone time. Usually if we have a few hours alone we will end up doing stuff but i always have to start it out. I have asked her why she never comes on to me and she said because she is scared i won't feel like it. Guess she is scared i will reject her? I told her that she should at least try since i do. She said she would but she still hasn't.We didn't do anything all weekend because i was waiting for her to start it out. So why won't she start it? Do you think it would be a good idea for me to stop initiating it for a while? Like just don't even act sexual for a month to see if she comes after me? Lol i just want her to ask me for once.
Cee Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Not initiating sex would probably scare her and she'll think you don't like her anymore. You could try teasing her like telling her you'd like to touch her, but you won't. You could make a sexy game out of it. Where you tell her sexy things or take your shirt off, but don't kiss her. And then let her lead and be encouraging of her the whole time. I think she needs a little help getting out of her shell. I think she will if she feels safe and supported.
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