ChickenEata Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 In september i honestly think i was the grossest dude at my school. Long dirty hair. Super fat. No outfits. I guess i had personality but that can only take you so far. Went out with the ugliest girl in the school. The kind of girl who was blowing freshman left and right after she dumped me. Guess i was so gross she actually dumped me to be a slut. I cut my hair. Started dressing a bit better. Lost around 70 pounds. Still got more to lose though. Only one really cute girl even talked to me before. And thats because me and her had to sit together in class so i guess she got to like my personality but i doubt she would have ever given me a shot. I plan on losing all the weight this summer. Gonna get my money up so i can buy some nice outfits to wear. But i feel like the girls at my old school will always see me as i was before. Especially the cute girl i was talking about. The only one who was nice to me from the start. I really wanna go out with her and its obvious she likes my personality but idk if she would ever give me a shot knowing who my ex is and how i used to be. I was thinking maybe i should start at a new school. But i miss her a lot. So idk. Do you think girls image of me will change? Or will i always be that dude in there eyes?
sumdude Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 What's more important is your own view of yourself. Worrying to much about what other people think won't get you too far in life. Still... making positive changes in your life is always a good thing and people will notice. Just remember, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
fishtaco Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 No, actually some girls would pay you extra positive attention if they noticed that you made the transformation. It's a good thing. Good job. Keep at it.
Lucky555 Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I think the view you should see is your own. I understand how you feel. But surround yourself with positive people, get social with people you enjoy, and do what you are passionate about. I think you should never underestimate yourself. If you like the girl she will either like you for you or she may not. It's not all about looks there has to be chemistry too. People have different pheromones which attract them to each oter. For instance I have dated really attractive guys and was kind of attracted to them. However I was looking for more each time. I didn't dump them because of their looks or their personality. I more so saw myself not being compatible because we wanted different things in life. Dating is the only way to determine if there is more. Also if you get rejected don't sweat it. Try again with someone else. Dating is a way to get to know someone. Also..my current bf has some self esteem issues except he is really skinny! He feels like a "bag of bones" because he doesn't gain wait easily and he does not have an eating disorder. However I "dated" him and gave him a chance because I liked him overall. His insecurities were not what I was thinking when I liked him. I thought he was cute and funny. Otherwise you just need to give dating a chance. Don't wait till you lose weight act now! I don't care what my boyfriend wears for a style I find him more attractive when he is naked! Haha he likes clothes because he wears them baggy to hide that he is skinny! I don't care. So give dating a chance while you pursue your goals of losing weight or whatever you want.
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