mortensorchid Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 In 06, was the last serious relationship I had. We had been together for nearly two years, long distance if that, and all seemed well. Then, one day, he changed on me. That is, one day he showed me his true colors. He turned angry, miserable, not to mention abusive. This was the man who said that he would not consider this to be a permanent set up if I did not loose weight and quit smoking. By the time he broke it off, I had successfully dropped 30 of the 45 lbs I would eventually loose, and I had quit for about 6 weeks at that point. I took it as a challenge to show him that I could, in fact, do both. He was furious at me, because it took me too long to do it. My only explanation for this is that this was some kind of a power trip he was taking over me. Not to mention the fact that he then decided to hit me. Barely a year later, he met and married another woman. They had known each other for less than 6 months and had met online. He said he didn't want children, and he met and married a woman with two children (one apiece from 2 previous marriages), neither of whose Daddies are in the picture so he became Daddy if not emotionally then financially. She bled him dry. Found out this past weekend that this marriage is also over and she left him for someone else. I pity her, having to cope with his rage and abuse. I hope she escaped successfully. Really dodged a bullet there, didn't I?
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