what do u call a 1/28979 of a bread crumb?...maybe this is an atom :S or a dust spec

[ConflictedGirl]

so I was on fb and randomly got a message from some1 on my list I didn't know (I have a lot of people on fb I don't know, I accept everyone) I know the account wasn't fake though...but guy said "*exesnamemisspelt* says hello" I said huh cause I wasn't sure about the typo of the name...and the person said "he said hello but never mind" and I quickly deleted them...i mean as far as I know he probably did say hello through this random guy... but I can't be 100% sure it was him because of the typo but on the assumption it was from my ex...why? we Haven't spoken in almost 3 months... I basically hate him...why send a message through some1 I don't even know..granted he could be testing the water because I have every right to hate him..but what response could he expect anyway?

 

i told my friend she said...hes just getting weaker and closer to breaking and that sooner or later hell contact me str8 up

 

what do you guys think?...probably just wanted to see my response huh?

 

was quickly deleting this guy a bad move?

 

& then i cant help but wonder...what if this wasn't even from my ex...like the name was spelt wrong..but my ex is the only 1 i know with a name like that and who else wud be sending messages through ppl

 

 

2 things ive noticed about my ex since the break is up that he is a COWARD & A SMART MANIPULATOR...amongst other thigs..but this seems so like him....send a vauge message through some random guy..mispell his name but still make it recognizable... now hes on my mind , heck theres even motive for me to contact him but yet theres the "what if it isnt even him" so he kind of risks nothing...& he still doesnt have to contact..

 

or i could just be paranoid^ smehhh

 

any thoughts?

[Exit]

Oh boy, who knows. Unfortunately the only thing that really results from something like that is getting in your head and slowing down your healing. There is no way to know if it had anything to do with him or just someone else messing around. I'll never understand why people just add everyone on Facebook, it's kinda your personal space and all about your life, so now you got this message from someone and you don't even know who it was. I'm glad I deleted my Facebook.

 

All you can really do is try your best to forget this ever happened otherwise you can sit here for weeks and obsess about who it was or what it meant, and it all could have just been someone messing with you. Try to get it out of your mind ASAP before it roots itself in there even deeper.

[radiodarcy]

was quickly deleting this guy a bad move?

 

on the contrary - - it was the best move you could have made. if it was your ex he proved to you what you already know: he's a coward and a manipulator. why play into his games by staying on the line and responding?

 

and if it wasn't your ex then - - no harm done. you got rid of some weirdo who was trying to contact you through facebook.