bffnomore Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I've been friends with a girl for a while now. We get along really well, however we never really hung out until recently. We went out for dinner the other day and then went to a friends birthday party. The dinner was really good, never stopped talking, we were the last ones there. Went to the birthday party and I decided to give her some space with her girlfriends. So I grabbed a beer and mingled. Throughout the night I would find myself drawn to her, and she would often come to me and lean on me or give me a hug because she was cold. come the end of the night 4:00am, we decided to leave. I had driven and she had been drinking. Now she wasn't drunk (trust me), but she wasnt sober either. As soon as we got in the car she leaned over and hugged me, well embraced me is proabably a better word, and I 'embraced' her back. I couldnt stop myself from playing with her hair and looking into her georgeous brown eyes. She never once, stopped me, or pulled away. I wanted so much to kiss her, but I didnt want our first time to be a moment of drunkeness between friends, or worse....a forgotten encounter the next day. So i didnt and we fell asleep in each others arms. we woke up at 7am and I drove home. She smiled the wholeway home, hugged me and left smiling.........now I can't stop thinking about it. Did i make a mistake, should I have kissed her? Did i just ruin an opportunity? Seriously when it comes to women, I'm not a playa, but I've never been a sap either. This girl just does something to me. Any advice or comments would be appreciated. My friends are telling me to go for it, but I'm still unsure. It's not the rejection, but the thought of if I had of waited longer we may have ahd a better chance. Please any help would be much appreciated!
ssdksd Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I agree with the above poster....ask her out again and when you feel the same thing again lean in and kiss her..sounds like she wanted to do the same to you but was scared of your reaction!!
Author bffnomore Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 Thanks ssdksd. I think you've got the right idea. Really appreciate the feedback. I'm going to ask her out again, problem is I'm tied up with owrk and other commitments so I can't do it right now. I just hope some lucky guy doesn't swoop in before I do. Thanks again.
93TheHitStick Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Wow. Strong wussy presence in this thread. First of all you said she wasn't drunk. Meaning you should have kissed her. Or you could have kissed her when you drove her home the next day. But you know what no use crying over spilt milk. The point is she likes you. And she isn't going to wait until you aren't super busy with work. If she is cute other guys will pick her up. Ask her on a date for this week.
Author bffnomore Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 Soo I just re-read my last post and realised 93TheHitStick is right. Like I said, I've neva been like this before. It's time to htfu!!! I'm out
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