conehead Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 Just got back from a second date with the guy. We haven't kissed on the lips nor held hands yet or held each other in general. I thought it went rather well until the end of the date I hugged him and kissed him on the cheek and he said 'okay, thank you' in a nonchalant way and just walked to his car. I was left thinking 'wth was that?' and felt rather embarrassed and thought maybe kissing him on the cheek was too forward on my part and he was taken aback by it or it made him feel uncomfortable. 2 hours after the date he texted me 'had a good time with you today. Do you like being held on a date? Didn't know whether ur fine with that.' I'm not sure what he means by being held on a date. Anyone know what he means? I'm not sure how to respond to that. I'm not used to guys asking me such questions...guys i date are normally a bit more assertive.
oaks Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I think he's just asking permission to take things further next time. Probably just means that he wants to hold your hand or put his arm(s) around you. Tell him it depends how tight he is going to squeeze you.
Author conehead Posted June 6, 2011 Author Posted June 6, 2011 I guess his mixed signals are making me feel kinda unsure/insecure. I don't know if he is really shy, or just simply uninterested.
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