DreamerGirl27 Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 That when a male cares about his appearance and tries to look good all the time, he is the biggest jerk in the entire world? But, when a girl takes care of her appearance, she's just being a girl. I was just talking about this to one of my female friends and she agrees (so does pretty much everyone I talk to, actually). No wonder women tend to flock to gay men. Good looking and usually not a douche, they just play for the wrong team. And, no wonder I love Hanson so much. Good looking guys who take care of their appearance who AREN'T gay!! I guess, maybe, because when a guy is trying to look really good, he's just trying to get laid and when a girl does it, it's because she's doing it for multiple reasons other than just to get sex? Idk, it's something I've gone over in my head a lot, because I want a really decent, good looking guy, but the ones I've come across have all been ***holes. I refuse to give up, though. Being a "nice guy" does not give you the right to "let yourself go". And vice versa.
Ms. Joolie Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 When you say Hanson, do you mean in their MMMBop days ? As I'm looking at more recent pictures of the group, they look quite ordinary in appearance and size. So when you say 'skinny handsome guys with long hair who look like Hanson', I'm picturing the Hanson of the 90's.......
Saxis Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I'm guessing you're talking about the top 5% or so of attractive guys. Females in this category are no different. Maybe they're not looking for sex, but they're usually looking for validation just the same. They do it because they can. The opposite sex enables it and they don't need personality to meet someone.
Ross MwcFan Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 Are you saying you think most nice guys let themselves go? I've never got that impression. I like to take care of my appearance, I think I'm a nice guy (definatley not an alpha male anyway), but I don't do it to get laid, I do it for myself. Of course though, the fact that women will find you more attractive is a nice motivator/bonus.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Posted June 6, 2011 When you say Hanson, do you mean in their MMMBop days ? As I'm looking at more recent pictures of the group, they look quite ordinary in appearance and size. So when you say 'skinny handsome guys with long hair who look like Hanson', I'm picturing the Hanson of the 90's....... No, I mean now. I have seen them in person, you NEVER see guys that good looking in person. They're still skinny handsome guys with nice hair. Maybe not as long as it used to be, but they've still got nice heads of hair. I'm talkin' about, the even skinnier guys in heavier rock or metal bands. They're friggin' hot. And the biggest jerks in the entire world. I guess it's just that I consistently go for musicians. I love their look, I love everything about them other than the fact that they sleep with 18 million women. An average looking guy who doesn't look like a musician would be like hell for me to get anywhere near. They are that unattractive to me. I like skinny white guys with long hair. Always have.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Posted June 6, 2011 I'm guessing you're talking about the top 5% or so of attractive guys. Females in this category are no different. Maybe they're not looking for sex, but they're usually looking for validation just the same. They do it because they can. The opposite sex enables it and they don't need personality to meet someone. No, quite the contrary. I don't like the model type, muscular type. In fact, I've been told by a very good looking gay guy, that I like ugly guys. I can't help it, though. I like the rocker type. And with girls, even though I'm not attracted, what I find attractive are the 16-18 year old girls like Victoria Justice and Miley Cyrus, Avril Lavigne, Taylor Swift, Miranda Cosgrove to be what's really attractive. I don't like big boobs or curves. I like girls that are about 5'6" or taller who are super thin with very little curves. Megan Fox looks almost fat to me. She's got too many curves. I'm the same way with men. Maybe it's because I have a slightly anorexic mind. I find anything with meat on them ugly. I also exclusively think white people are attractive. It may sound racist, but as friends, I can be friends with anyone of any race, that really doesn't bother me, but the only friends I have that I find attractive, both male and female, are these types of white girls and guys. That's what I find attractive and the entire rest of the planet, literally, is not to me. Both women and men.
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